Is an off and on relationship healthy??

Question

me n my bf have been goin out for a yr n a half n we break up but not alot but we always end up crying and wantin each other! is it bad! we both done alot of mistakes in the past..

Answer 1

omg girl...I did that for 7 long years. Someone told me once that when you have finally had enough you'll move on for good. I moved on for good about four months ago. I had to really let it get bad but I couldn't take the on/off thing any longer. It was driving us both crazy. We had to figure out what the original attraction was and for some reason, after 7 years we could not remember anymore. Plus he wouldn't commit to me (and now I'm glad he didn't) so I left him. I can say I'm better off. Not financially, because he helped me, but I'm MUCH better off emotionally!