Is anybody else like this........?

Question

when i first see a girl/woman, there is nothing sexual there, nothing about her body that gets me thinking "those" thoughts about her.

i look at her in a clinical manner, like, all her body parts in the manner they were originally intended, rather than in a sexual way.

it's the same with myself, as long as my private part does it job and gets rid of urine, i'm happy.

and theres nothing sexual there towards men either, if they're muscular, i admire them for that, but it's because i don't think i'd have the stamina to get a body like that, so i respect them.

even when i do "guy stuff", i have to start "cold" before i get aroused.

there doesn't seem to be anything sexual there.

another example is:

when most guys go out "on the pull", if they meet a girl, they buy a condom, and get to business.

now me, i assume that she could have any amount of diseases/infections, that she wouldn't tell me about, and if the condom were to split, i'd be **cked.

whats going on with me?

Answer 1

Well..I'm a woman. lol

But I've heard of people who aren't even interested in s*x that much, or even at all. And their relationships, like when their dating, don't have s*x in them.

They just, date.

But maybe you just have a low s*x drive.

Answer 2

My perception is that your conservative nature is narrowing your life experiences to the point that you are attempting to suppress your innate desires and emotions.

Cognition is a primary motivator.  But, so are emotions and sexual desire.

Let both aspects flow.