Is anyone else utterly depressed? my mums dead, my dad just commit suicide, im living away from my friends and

Question

there is nothing good in my life anymore

why isnt life fair

people tell me ur problems make me feel better and make mine look insignificant : )

Answer 1

omg that's so sad!

Well, my cousin just died in a drunk driving accident, I didn't know him too well but my mom grew up with him and she's really sad.  I never see my dad anymore, and I wish I could but he has to work at least two three hours in order to see me.  My mom works a lot, so I have to watch my brother a lot.  But I'm probably making my life sound much worse than it is......................  I'm sorry about your parents I really am if you need someone to talk to you can talk to me.  =]

Answer 2

tbh i cant i dont have any problems

and even if i do i just face them head on and get back on the horse

Answer 3

I'm sorry to hear about your parents.  ...just awful to go through something like this.  Spend some time on the phone with those friends, and rediscover your extended family (cousins, aunts, uncles, etc.).  You may be surprised what a help they can be at a time like this.

...my condolences.

Answer 4

I honestly cannot tell you anything that will make your problems insignificant because they are not.  Your issues are very important and you have to face them or else they will plague you forever.  I know that what you are going through as I lost my father recently as well. I commend your ability to talk about this.  Please talk to a counselor who can give you guidance on how to make these feelings easier to deal with.  

Answer 5

1.My 4th uncle(my father's side) passed away a few years ago in San Francisco.

2.My mom's side: My 3rd auntie's husband and my cousin passed away this year. My eldest auntie and her husband passed away 10 years ago.

3.My elder brother's grandma-in-law passed away a few years ago.

4.My hubby's godfather passed away 1 week ago.

5. All our grandparents died 15 years ago.

6. My father-in-law passed away way before we met. I have only known my hubby for 1 yr 4 months.

My family is very small now. Only have my parents, 4 of us married(with our spouses).

I live with my mother-in-law and hubby in a 4 room hdb flat in Bedok. Only the 3 of us in this 4 room hdb flat.

Answer 6

life is never going 2 be all good and all fair.. but the world is your oyster, just have 2 learn how 2 crack it.. see your doctor and let your friends help you get through the bad times.. maybe you can move back 2 your old neighborhood.. and after you have seen your dr. and your feeling somewhat better, maybe look into a job or volunteer at the hospitals, where children have cancer or other kind of pain.. play games with them, listen 2 them.. just be their friend.. i know there's chat depression groups online.. i just don't know how 2 tell you 2 find them.. however it goes 4 you, hang in there, life will get better  : )

Answer 7

Well I got fired from my last teaching job in November so my teaching career is over. I don't think teaching little b******s is my forte. At 54 I will have to find a new career.  My wife died 3 years ago from cancer.  Someone stole my credit card number and went on a spending spree. I am about 100 pounds overweight and I have to struggle to make the mortgage payments on a house that is falling apart.   I live alone and all my family lives about 500 miles away.

On the other hand I am being treated for my depression and losing weight, and I seem to be making headway financially.  The summers are nice and cool here although the winters suck.   I own two automobiles that both seem to be in fine working order.  All in all I suspect your problems are worse than mine but there is always hope in life unless you give up.  Get help.  There are sympathetic and loving people out there that can help you.  Life never is fair.    

Answer 8

1.One of my younger brothers passed away a few years ago in San  Francisco.

2.My wife's side: Her elder sister's husband and son passed away this year. Her eldest sis and her husband passed away long ago.

3.My second son's grandma-in-law passed away a few years ago.

4.My youngest son-in-law's godfather passed away 1 week ago.

5. All our parents have deceased 15 years ago.