Is anyone ever ready for a baby?

Question

financially? emotionally? how do you know its the right time?

Answer 1

There is never a right time to have a baby.  There is always something going on that gives you doubts.  I'm 35 and I "waited" for the right time.  I'm 25 weeks pregnant, but I wish I had done it sooner.  I knew it was the right time because my husband and I are so in love and a baby just seemed so natural.  

Answer 2

You know its the right time when you and your partner start feeling like someone is missing in your family. When you no longer care about things like going out partying and when you have enough money to support another little life. Everytime I saw a baby I would think 'ohhh I want one so bad" and my partner felt the same so we made a baby. Best desicion I have ever made in my life. Being a Mum is the best thing in the world. Its so difficult at first but its worth it

Im 23 so these days im considered 'a young Mum' but for us the time was right. If I waited any longer then I did we would have gone nuts because making a family was all we wanted.

Answer 3

i think thats the problem in this country everyone wants to wait until theyre 40 and "financially stable" or whatever.. but the fact is that unless youre a millionaire youll probably never be in the place you'd like to be when you want to have kids.. emotionally well no one needs another b spears as a mom....but as long as youre mature enough to handle it all, go for it. i had 3 before i turned 23 and we're not rich but we love our kids and we're surviving

Answer 4

I agree great answer.

Answer 5

There is no right time to have kids, nor a right spacing between kids, nor a right number of kids to have.

You know its the right time when the baby crowns, then there is no going back =))

Answer 6

i think your first answer is great. me and my fiancee have been together since i was 14 and he was 16 (its been 6years now) and we are almost done with university and are getting married next year, we are going to start trying right after graduation :D it doesn't matter how old you are really (we will still be "too young" in some peoples minds, we'll be 22 & 24 by then) and no we wont have all the money in the world we will be on a budget (like 90% of all the families on earth) but a child doesn't need tons of toys and holidays, a child wants love, fun times with mommy & daddy and lots of cuddles, good food/warmth and just enough toys to keep them happy :D this is all easy to provide and most of it free!!!! as long as you have a loving partner who will stand by you and you can earn enough money to live comfortably any time is a good time to have a baby :D

Answer 7

Guess there's no right or wrong answer to this one....when the time comes, you'll just know it.Everything else would just fall into their rightful place...eventually :D

Cheers :)