Is anyone here happy not having ever spent their lives with the right person for them and if so...?

Question

1) Did you ever meet that person (I'm not implying that there's only one possible person for you by the way).

2) If you did and you couldn't be with them, what made it ok in the end?

3) If you did and you couldn't be with them, did you have to cut all ties?

4) If you didn't have to cut ties, what made this ok eventually?

5) Any other relevant thoughts?

Answer 1

Sure.. but just because they were right for me, doesn't mean I was right for them. Life takes many twists and turns and not always in the direction you hope for.

There is no "right" or "wrong" person for anyone, life is like a river and we are all tossed along on the current. Sometimes we get to float along with another sometimes to the end of the journey and sometimes not.. Learning how to enjoy those we are travelling with while we can is part of life, as is learning to let go and move on when the currents seperate us.. You can't stop the flow of life any more than you can stop moving along with the current of a river.

You can't cut all ties.. just like the river, we are all in it together.. this life. Learning to go with the flow is all you need to do.. you are always connected to those around you and those you have touched. Who knows what life will bring you may find yourself floating along with the same person miles down the river again.

What makes it okay is that after every set of rapids that tear us apart there is always a calm backwater pool that could bring us together with those we care for..

If you want you can jump out of the river and sit on the shore watching everyone else go by and never being a part of it. That's the only way to cut all ties, unfortunately you cut all ties with lifes journey too..  I'd say it's better to stay in and see what lies ahead, it's always better to take a journey than give up and sit on the side waiting for something to pull you back in..

Sorry if I sounded harsh, I didn't mean too.. I really wish you all the best and I hope you don't worry too much about things it will all work out in the end. Just go with the flow!!

Answer 2

1. yeah i meet that one person

2. knowing that regardless of our differences i could not imagine life with out him, so we talk

3. we had to cut the romantic stuff, s*x and such

4. we get along great now, i guess you can say we are starting over, taking things slow, real slow as if we barley meet each other

if you are trying over start from the beginning, let go of your past mistakes and try a new. good luck

Answer 3

Wow! I am really interested in answers to your questions.....I'm in the same boat.