Is asking my sister-in-law to move out is a selfish attitude?

Question

They have six kids already, since then I didn't see the effort to help out financially, always rely for everything. Her excuse was, no one will look after the children. It's not my problem at all... Share your thoughts with this.

Answer 1

it isn't your problem, but like so many, it has become yours.  they are her kids, her responsibility, not yours.  why should you look after them so she can go out?  sorry, but it is time for her to go, and you to get your life back.  kick her and her kids out.

Answer 2

A selfish attitude would be hard to determine with such small amount of information. If you asked your sister-in-law to move out, what are you expecting your brother to do? Where is he?

Who pays the rent? The bill for food? Is she helping with any of this? 6 kids are allot of work, but they are your nieces and nephews. Sit them both down show her and your brother the bills you all create. Then ask them to help pay or move out.