Is being respectful and reserved really worth it?

Question

Well i'm in gr.11 now and i'm a really quiet respectful guy, i guess you could say shy too, when i talk to people im usually quiet and im not the type of person who talks alot about themselves or shows off. I could say girls think im attractive and i'm pretty smart i have a 93% average and just quiet in class and stuff. But i've noticed people who are loud obnoxious and ignorant have alot more fun with themselves and always have girlfriends go to parties etc. I just wonder if its worth it acting the way that i do, i notice i spend most of my time bored out of my mind at home reading or taking things apart or cleaning my gun lol, i feel more combfotable this way and nicer but i think of it almost as wasting my life, people who used to be my friends who act loud and obnoxouis just seem to have a better life, is being respectful worth it

Answer 1

go ahead... be loud and crazy... BUT PLZZZZZZZ be respectful PLZ PLZ PLZ!! =]

Answer 2

I know a lot of guys like you, in fact my boyfriend used to the one who was quiet and reserved and who didnt really have any girl friends. He is such a sweet guy and i would def choose him over any loud obnoxious guy. The only problem with being shy is that girls dont get to know you. You just need to take a few chances and try opening up more when youre talking to people. I know its not as easy as im putting it cuz i am shy at times too and its hard to open up to people you dont know well but you just gotta work at and realize youre doing it to better yourself. i hope this helps and hope things work out!

p.s. be careful with that gun

Answer 3

you could still be respectful and reserved and go to parties and have girlfriends!!! girls like those kind of guys better=] there is absolutely no need to be abnoxious and ignorant thats dumb. dnt try to be anyone else just be yourself get out there and have fun!!!

Answer 4

its worth it hunny. be who you are. the perfect girl will come along. If you wanna have fun, open up a little. not that hard =]