i am soon to be 26.i have a home that is choking the life out of me.i have it up for sale,some showings but no offers.my listing expires in 2 months. i cannot afford the home anymore. i have a low fixed rate.the reason i cant afford it is i had a high paying job with a company that i was with for 7 years, they laid me of last december for six months and when they took me back it has only been part time.i have picked up a second part time job but for way less money.i am a heavy equipment operator.there is no one hiring out there. i have been looking trust me.my employer (the one i have been with forever) told me that we are sutting down for the winter in october and also said next year does not look good.now i am in a home that i cannot afford anymore and i can not find a job(and one that will pay as much as this one). i cant find roomates and if i did the income would not bail me out. i cannot rent the home because my realitor told me i would not get enough to cover the mortage, plus i have to live somewhere too. i am in a jam big time. i have already spoken to a bankrupt lawyer and he said i very well qualify for chapter 7. i mean i am planning on worst case that my home will not sell. i have it up for sale for just what i owe pluse real-estate fees and closing cost. i cannot go any lower. a "fresh start" is sounding pretty good right now. considering it could be years before i have the same income that i have had in the past.i have also spoken to my lender and they said they might be able to drop the payment a little but it would not be enough.it would have to go to 0 for me to even barly get by.i mean i am making WAY less than i have been. i have not even been able to go food shopping in 3 months. i eat at my moms every night. and have alredy borrowed countless thousands of dollars from family to keep my payments up untill now. i am a strain on them. and would have to keep borrowing for years, even though i know this is not possible. so do i end it now or keep struggling for a few more months then have to do it? thankyou for reading this i know its long.
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