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Is chat room the right place to meet love mate?

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Friends told me that chat room and pen pal is the right place to meet love mate. Even a friend of mine met his lovemate on pen pal. Can we conclude this assertion? to what extent? If so can I try my best?

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I don't think it is. You don't know what their real personality is. Or what they look like...
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No never trust people online, Most people turn out to be serial killers online,
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I think there is a huge difference between meeting somone online over meeting someone in real life. That is just my opinion. Is it wrong? no. Look at how many love sights there are to meet singles like match dot com.

But once you meet someone online it can be real easy to fall in love with the computer screen and love letters over who is really behind there typing you. Someone may have all the right words to say, but in real life maybe they are way unbalanced for you, maybe they interrupt a lot and talk too much or are a jerk, unlike the wonderful person you thought you were keeping in touch with. Maybe someone makes you feel good by taking the time to talk to you online but once you find this person for real, you may have nothing to say! A computer can do tricks and magic. Its easy to communicate. My mother and i cannot for the life of us talk in person but for some reason the computer is easier to express our true feelings because you cant argue with a screen!! You can only read and express. Same with love.

But love isnt meant to be that simple. I advise you to watch the movie "youve got mail" with tom hanks and meg ryan. VERY CUTE MOVIE!!! And you will understand what i mean by "computer can disguise" a person as well.
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no its an xtremely bad idea, u might get bluffed too.
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in my opinion what is wrong with you that you cant meet someone at work in the food market in the post office waiting on line just face to face i think its better chat rooms pen pals not for me to each his own
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no, for all you know they are lying about

everything they say to you
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I met my BF online and we've been together for almost 3 years. If it happens, it happens. I think it was fate! :)

Good luck!
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No No and No

Although meeting someone you like in a chat-room isn't difficult, meeting someone genuine is very unlikely.   People that you interact with in a chatroom can be deceiving in order to gain your attention through the presenting of age, s*x, or even personality, these qualities can be easily altered from the touch of a button and a few keyboard strokes. The truth is that a person has the freedom to describe his or her self in anyway that is beneficial to their attractiveness online.  If you meet this actual person in real life, what you had preferred in mind could disappoint you.

I had tried "Pal-talk" and met a beautiful 20/ single/ woman who was actually in her mid-thirties, divorced, and reckless.  She "photo-shopped" her nose as well.  That was not what I saw online!

Think about it, why did so many of these "singles" have to resort to online dating sites such as Pen-pal, Chemistry, Lava-life, and other misleading "match-up" tools in the first place.  If a person has to depend on these online websites to find a successful relationship, than something is not right in their personal life.

ex) being too shy, too cautious, an issue that they aren't willing to openly share, the list goes on, and you could be the next victim feeling sorry for him or her.

Is it possible to meet that special someone online? Yes, small chance and your friend was lucky.

Is it the right place?  No No & NO

I would rather meet somebody at work or at a nice local community center, church, humanitarian organization and possibly the club or college, but I'd rather not do it online.

Keep it genuine, I'm sure you will meet that someone on a special day =D

-Good luck
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eHarmony... one of my mom's really close friends found this guy there and now they are happily married to each other :] good luck
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Well let me just start off saying that meeting anyone in person that you met online can be dangerous. How ever my parent met online. I dont think that a chat room would be the right case but maybe something like match.com or eharmony.com. Its all up to you! Good Luck
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Dear friend,

Why not ? You can use chat room as the reight plce to meetlove mate. So go ahead, but with clean intentions.
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Oh yes!!! I am marrying someone who I first met in a chat room....

but then you need to nkow a lot more about her/him than just the chat id!!!!
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Quit dreaming and do it as we humans have since time immemorial.......face to face, eye to eye, mouth to mouth!

Virtual love is just a pipedream !
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i don't think so.....most ive seen in chat rooms want cybering and fun. get out in the real world !!!!!!!!!!
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I am not sure if 'love mate' is a new phase... but if your talking about meeting someone online - well that is very common in today's technology driven society. We access the internet on a regular basis, we keep in contact with people through chat sites and messengers. My best friend for 6 years I met off the net, and my lovely boyfriend of 9 months I also met of the net. If it wasn't for the internet, I wouldn't have found both my bestie and my partner (both my soul mates). You just have to be careful on how you go on meeting people off the net -- because some people can lie and it can be dangerous.
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