Is cheating really all that bad?

Question

Hear me out, if you have zero feelings for that person you are cheating with why should it hurt so much? all bodies feel pretty much the same, we are all flesh and bone. As long as there isn't any risk of std's whats the problem?

Answer 1

For me, I suppose it is my own self consciousness.

If my partner cheats, even if it is just for s*x, it makes me feel like I am undesirable. I feel that if a person truly loves me then the only body he would want to touch should be mine. If he is finding pleasure from other people, i feel like he is obviously not satisfied. I want my guy to want me, and only me.  

Answer 2

the problem is disclosure

if you have an agreement, then swing

Answer 3

   So you supposedly have feelings for someone, but you sleep with someone else because all bodies are the same?  And you want to know what the big deal is?  How dense are you?  What you are saying to the person you supposedly have feelings for is 'I care so little about you that I would devastate you for someone that means nothing to me.'  That's the equivalent of saying 'You mean less than nothing.'  And you don't think that's a big deal?

Answer 4

Yes, cheating is really that bad. There are feeling involved one way or another maybe not yours but some one else's and what about the family and friends if the cheating comes out in the open. What if you loved someone, but they cheated on you and told you that they really don't care for the person, but that person gave them something or could provide them with something or made them feel a certain way that you couldn't, but not to worry, they didn't really love the person or anything that they were cheating with? Cheating is cheating. Someone will get hurt and remember what goes around comes around. Being cheated on makes a person feel weak and unworthy and worthless and so much more that really can't be put into words. Don't cheat, it is not worth it.

Answer 5

cheating is always bad , Do you believe the KARMA ?if you do then becareful.One day you will be the person cheated by spouse.

Good Luck

Answer 6

Its a question of character...

Appartently who have none and your mind is reluctantly accepting it.

Your best solution is to s***w a sock, your not ready for people yet.

Work on your character and a healthy relationship will manifest from it everytime.

good luck!!!

Answer 7

I guess for most people the issue of fidelity includes sexual fidelity because that is important for them. And loving them means not doing certain activities with other people.

You'll find some disagree, and if so that's great for them those couples can make their arrangements to have s*x outside the relationship, but you'll find most people are hurt by it because part of the relationship is s*x only with each other. Also, most people lie about cheating which is also the hurtful part, the deception.

Also, if all bodies feel the same, then what's the point of having s*x with somebody else? Usually the people arguing this are trying to say it's good to have different experiences, you're saying it's all the same and still advocating it?

Harriet

Answer 8

it's easy for a guy to say that. but when a woman gets herself into a relationship with a man, it's usually for him and him only. he may not see the harm in casual s*x to keep himself "happy" or whatever. but if his woman (the one he claims to love) finds out, she will be heartbroken, because (to women) s*x is all EMOTIONAL, we don't feel the "flesh and bone" part of it, we feel the closeness of it. if a man could share that with another woman she would feel unloved for sure.  

Answer 9

Yes because when it happens to you you will say man now I know!

I have not cheated but my ex gf did.

Happy I am lol!

No more catering her lol

Answer 10

You'll find out when you have a gf who says she loves you...

   and you learn a week later she is s******g your guy friends!!