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Is cheating spouse mad at me for texting the other girl?

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I just found out my husband is talking to one of his exes, i knew something was up because out of the blue he wanted alone time. I told him to leave , and i do a myspace search to see if his name and pictures pop up and come to find out he's single horny and he's talking to another girl that he seems to be in love with. He calls me two days later saying he wants me back , he's sorry and he wants me to forgive him. So I tell him i dont know if i even love him anymore. I do send a message to both of the girls he's talking to online and I tell them he's married and he a lie and a peace of ****. So the next day im calling him all day, because i need his help with the car, and hes pissed off at me, not answering the phones and acting like im bothering him. So now i feel like its really over. I just wanted to get other peoples oppiniion on his behavior. what do you guys think, is he over with her right now, do you think hes no longer sorry because i sent the message to her, or is he mad because i didnt forgive him yet?

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  1. he's mad because he got caught.  


  2. Honey, HOW CAN HE RESPECT YOU???

    He is cheating/planning to cheat/has cheated AND YOU CALL HIM ABOUT THE CAR?

    Oh wait, you aren't planning on doing a d**n thing....sorry us women with spines sometimes don't get it right away.

    Good luck in your h**l :P

  3. I think your confused!

    He cheats on you and you have the nerve to call him for help with your car? I guess its ok that he cheat if he fixes the car?

    I think you need to understand that anyone that text or flirts or gives another person the ideal that they want to sleep with them, is scum. You teach people how to treat you and if you allow this, then its your fault.

  4. NAW, he's made because he got caught. Plain and simple. You're contacting the other women just embarrassed him profusely. You need to do YOU and let him do the confusing mess he has made of his life. A Man Who is Double-Minded is a Mess to Be Involved With. Start loving yourself more than you love him and see him for who he really is and not through those lying rosey glasses he gave you.  

  5. You have no reason to forgive him. Find a good divorce lawyer and find someone worth your time.

  6. You hurt his pride by doing that.  If you ask me he will continue to do it.

    Linda

  7. what a mess..... who cares if he s mad and who furthermore cares if he did  or didnt forgive you..... tell him to go ahead and get on myspace cause you have finally found a myspace too and its called Your house alone by yourself

  8. Duke it out in counseling.  You need a referee to stave off further damage if there's any hope of salvaging this relationship.

  9. Ok yes he's sorry..a sorry husband! It would take my husband ONE time to pull that c**p & he'd be gone. Just think..if you take him back he's going to think he can get away with anything & you will be paranoid all the time & that's going to ruin the relationship in the end! If he really loved you..he wouldn't dare do anything to hurt you. You deserve more from a man. Stand up for yourself!

  10. Either both of you go and get counseling or get lawyers. Sad to see that he is two timing you. Not that I've heard his side of the story, but if its like you say, he is immature. Hope there aren't any children involved.

    Good Luck

  11. he wanted to keep u interested, and all the others also, when u contacted them it caused him some problems with these other women.i think its over with stuff. with, and if not it should be. he never was sorry he was just trying to have u there for him when he was finished with them.also he knows your on to him, and he won't be able to keep getting away with this.u spoiled his plans with these other women and maybe they got upset and dumped him.

  12. He is cheating on you, you leave him, yet you call him all day because you want his help?

    He has a right to be mad, you just ended a relationship.

    However he shouldn't have been doing what he has been doing. You have a right to end the relationship over trust issues....but END it. Don't ask for his help and dont lead him on.

  13. He cheated it is over!!!  that all there is to it...

  14. he's a cheater, who cares if he's mad at you?  Don't waste your time and money going to counseling.  Get a divorce and hopefully you will meet someone who will love and respect you!  Good luck!

  15. He's mad that you sent her a message, he didn't want her to know the truth, if you take him back then your stupid

  16. If he's the one who was cheating, and he really is sorry, he should be begging you for forgiveness and letting you text anyone you feel like! Sounds like he didn't plan on ending the other relationships. (So yes, he probably is pissed you ruined it for him.) I say get rid of him.

  17. I think he's mad and embarrased because he got caught cheating.  Don't take him back, he will do the same thing again.  He sounds like a piece of trash.

  18. Why would you even want to forgive him for? Remember he cheated on you and once a cheater always a cheater. If you forgive him then the next time he cheats on you don't go crying and saying that you thought he was going to change and that he will never do that to you

  19. Leave the bum....
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