Is crying bad when you're pregnant?

Question

ever sicne i got pregnant i've been crying a lot about 2/3 of each month i spend crying. my baby's father always yells at me and i can't take it. i'm not doing anything wrong im just minding my own business and out of no where he yells all the time and when he makes me cry he says stop crying the baby is going to come out sad and its all your fault. i can't take it all this verbal abuse is killing me. wh at should i do and how can being depressed and crying affect my pregnancy? will my baby come out sad or anything?

Answer 1

Well generally its normal but it looks like he needs some sort of reality check. No pregnant mother deserves that. I cry a lot and I'm 4 months and 1 week now, but thats no excuse for the father to treat you that way, get away from him. How is he going to act around the baby? You have to put your children first. Good Luck and you can email me if you need to talk, [e-mail]

Answer 2

No, but the stress isn't healthy for you or the baby.  It raises your blood pressure and heart rate.  Plus it just makes you feel miserable.  Crying a lot is normal in pregnancy - it's all the hormones.  I will cry over stupid things - a bad day, something I spilled or broke, when something didn't go right......  I'm sure my husband gets a little frustrated over it, but it'll get better.  It sounds like your S.O. needs to take a chill pill.  Perhaps he's under stress at work?  With family?  About the baby?  Finances?  Try to talk things out and see what's really on his mind that he's so snippy.  

Answer 3

no your baby won't come out sad, but it does not sound like you are in a healthy environment for you and the baby. . can you move in with someone who is not so abusive?  

Answer 4

Crying isn't bad. But crying & stressing isn't good either. So if you decide to cry- make sure your away or calmed down with the situation. Walk away from it & just let your hormones take over. Thats what i had to do. Hope all goes well. Good luck!!

Answer 5

You could cause stress to the baby since the father is a jacka$%. You should leave him that verbal abuse is not healthy for you and he is one to say things like that when he is actually making things a lot worse.

Answer 6

no crying isnt bad when you're pregnant, but the way that your partner is treating you is. Pregnancy makes women very emotional, and your partner should be there to stand by your side not abuse you. Depression and stress can harm the unborn baby, so maybe get out of the house and relax a little. Pregnancy is a beautiful time and you should be enjoying it, not crying over it.  

Answer 7

When pregnant your emotions and hormones are all off kilter so it is normal to be moody or emotional.  Crying all the time won't harm or influence the baby.

Yet the father is abusive to you, even if it is only verbal ... it can sometimes be a matter of time before it goes physical.  If you value not just your life but that of your unborn child, I would suggest that you seriously think about the kind of household and environment that you are living in and if you desire your child to be brought up into something like that.

I was in an abusive relationship for 5 years, it started out verbal but soon turned physical.  A couple months after I found out I was pregnant I made up my mind to leave.  To this day I do not regret it nor do I wish things had been differently.  I even have taken to living with the motto  ...   "You can beat the h**l out of me, but you won't lay a hand upon my child."

Good luck to you and your decisions that may affect your future.

Answer 8

no it is not bad.  but your baby's dad is bad.  I wouldn't want him raising a child.  I'd be out of there so fast he wouldn't know what hit him.

Answer 9

I would leave the jerk. If it doesn't affect your baby inside you, it will on the outside. Children can read your moods by your body temperature and language and will become distressed....Leave him and love you child.

Answer 10

I think the fact that your baby's father is making you cry is bad. Plus your emotions are roaring right now anyway. You need to have a talk with him, and tell him that if he doesn't stop the yelling you need to remove yourself from all the negative energy. When you feel yourself start to cry try and read a book to your baby to be or put on some relaxing music. I have heard (no proof) that if you cry a lot, and are miserable through your pregnancy, that you could have a colicky baby, but than again that is just what I've heard. Just  try and relax, and best of luck to you.  

Answer 11

your hormones are out of wack and yes it is normal to be very emotional and cry during your pregnancy. however, you should not be taking that c**p from him. if this is what he is doing when you cry what is he going to do when the baby cries???  look up sbs online, its a sad but all too often thing that happens because one parent or the other cant take it and they loose thier cool. please seek help before your or your baby become a stastic

how old are you by the way?