Is entertainment cheating?

Question

well i've been having conversations with my bf all over again abt kissing as entertainment. i think that if u r in a relationship u shouldn't kiss any other person but he's giving me examples abt a marriage. lets say that they r doing great but the wife doesn't give give him wut he wants. like pleasure and nasty stuff and he goes to a hooker who can satisfy him. i think thats cheating but he says that if the guy is looking for smth his wife doesn't give him is right. i want to prove that i'm right but i just don't know how to tell him! thanks!

Answer 1

This is academical debate on the nothing. If you do not give something to your husband what he really WANTS, then (if he is healthy enough) he will look for it at other girls. And this also is true for wives, they will look for it at other men.  

Answer 2

Your boyfriend has just told you that he believes cheating on you is OK.  Are you seriously still sticking around?  Plan on a miserable relationship if you don't see that warning sign and take appropriate steps.

Run away.