Is everybody a nervous wreck about having a first baby?

Question

my husband and I have been trying for over a year and now that I'm finally pregnant all I can think about is whether or not I've made a mistake! I want my baby so much but what if not good for it? Financially? Emotionally? What if I can't handle the life change ahead of me?

Answer 1

You lucky that you are having a baby. Some pople try so many years and they still cannot have it. Donot need to worry about anything. just pray that He or She is healthy. Nice to have a normal delivery. Good luck!

LIFE CHANGES A  LOT AFTER HAVING A BABY AND YOU WILL GET USED TO IT.

Answer 2

Those are normal feelings for any pregnant woman, on her first baby or her second and so on. Give it some time, as your pregnancy progresses you will most likely feel more sure of yourself. Having a baby is a scary thing. It changes your entire life.

My advice to you is to try to relax. Discuss your feelings with your husband and anyone else who are you close to. Now is a particularly good time to spend some time with your mother. She probably understands what you're going through. Best of luck.  

Answer 3

LoL, right now we are just talking about ttc and it's my first month off the pill but I'm sure once it happens I will be a nervous wreck worried that I won't be a good mom.

Answer 4

I think every mom-to-be goes through that because I know I sure did I was nervous all through my pregnancy with my son. when he was born we still did not have a crib. so it is completely natural to go through that  fear. trust me once you have your baby you will forget about all your old fears and a whole new set of fears will emerge and you will get through the new ones just like you get through these ones. sometimes it just helps knowing you are not alone in these fears talk to your husband he will reassure you. Trust me everything will be just fine.(by the way my son does have a crib now )

Answer 5

I was nervous having all 3 of mine! You naturally worry that things will be ok. You go from worrying about them feeding enough and putting on weight, then if they are reaching their developmental stages ok, then you have bumps and cuts and bruises to worry about, next its primary school, then high school, then university, then they go off into the big wide world and get married, and next youre worrying if they are getting enough sleep or are they doing the exact same worrying you have been doing over them for their whole lives!

But honestly, you can and will handle it. Because all you need to do is look at your little baby, hold them close and tell them everything will be ok. Because, with loving parents and family, everything WILL be ok.

Answer 6

  

   No it your baby

i am not nervous