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Is going to the Strip Club Cheating?

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So is going to the strip club cheating? As in giving a girl money while she dances naked in front of you?

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  1. If both parties in the partnership know upfront about going to the strip club then not so much but if he secretly goes or knows it bothers you then yes it is cheating 'in a sense"

    Personally I think men go to strip clubs to compensate for something they are lacking within themselves.


  2. No, its just you getting horny and letting some chick put your banana in her mouth.  

  3. You can look but you can't touch is my policy.  

  4. Yes.  That is pushing the limits with the strip club.  

  5. No its not cheating however I do believe that a couple should be on the same page about what is and what isnt okay to do and if one of them crossed that line with guilty intentions then I would see that as being a problem.  

  6. yes I think you can cheat with your mind just as well as with your body

  7. Are you taking him with you?  They will give you a lap dance faster than he'll get one.

  8. No, cheating is having a relationship with another person. If your boyfriend goes to the same strip club over and over then there is cause for concern. But there is nothing wrong with sexual exploration, so long as hes honest about it

  9. No not at all. If you are just looking and not sleeping with the strippers and hanging there everyday.

  10. No it is not cheating

    it can be a problem if he does go all the time, even then it may not be cheating but signs he has other issues.

    if he is just going with his buddies than it is not a big deal. Those women are there dancing to make money, not to steal someones boyfriend or husband. He probably give the dancer money because all of his friends were and he didn't want to look cheap. Guys always have to look "manly" around each other.

    if you stress about this and accuse him of cheating..it will only cause you further head aches. Cheating is when a man goes out and has s*x or a relationship with another woman, not  looking at some working girl naked...some of those women can be nasty..he may not have even liked it! you let him know how you felt, and he probably will not go to a strip club again anytime soon. it's done and over with..forgive him for being a bone head

  11. Uh no thats not cheating, if its your wife's money she might be mad though ha ha

  12. No, not at all, if that is all that happens.   However a lot of strip clubs are nothing more then fronts for other activities that would be considered cheating.

  13. Not really, as long as he or she isn't touching or doing anything with the person. But from my point of view i don't like strips clubs i don't believe in them. I think it degrades the men and women that work in them, they could all just get real jobs like the rest of us and if it is the tips they like they could be a waitress.

  14. Would watching a movie that you paid for where there was a stripper in it be cheating?  Is having a bachelor party where there is a girl who dances  in front of the men cheating?  Even if they offer her money for it?

    Did he go past the limits of reason by overly engaging the stripper?  Most importantly, are there any other signs of infidelity going on?

    I don't think it's cheating just because he's at a bachelor party where there is a stripper.  Did you talk to him about it and let him know you aren't happy that he went.  Sometimes it's better to open up than to brood.

    Have fun!  Mistress Dolly

  15. o yeah you know he doesnt go there for the food and drinks. would you be ok if he was flirting with another girl on the streets

  16. Yes let me tell you why,  a guy dancing in front of your wife naked, throwing his shlong around and shaking his nasty booty in her face,- kinda funny huh, not really threatening cause girls aren't really sexually into that..  BUT  how about if she took off her clothes and  shook her boobies in another guys face and gave him a lap dance, is that cheating? That's the equal of guys going to a strip club, so if my man wants to go there then I have the right to get naked and dance with whom ever I please.

  17. Going to a strip club -not cheating but doing anything sexual at the strip club- yes!

  18. No. He's looking at a naked or almost naked girl but not doing anything with her. Unless he's touching her or getting it on with her (which is strictly verboten in the clubs these days) then it is not cheating.

    Are some women really that insecure they'd believe that?

  19. not really. its not like they are in a relationship the guys just having fun, unless hes like going to c his x or something

  20. uh how is it cheating? cause he gave her money? he was just getting into the spirit of being at a stripclub and goofing around,having fun with his buddies.

    relaxxxx,its nothing.

  21. Yes, This is how i look at it.If you are married and your not happy and have to go to a club then why be together.you can look at each other all night if you wanted why look at someone else.Paying for s*x is cheating .you pay to have a lap dance right?

  22. If he didn't make sure it was okay with his wife/girlfriend before going, then yes.

  23. It depends on the circumstances, say if it were a bachelorparty where everyone was just having fun (drunk) and he paid to make a girl dance just for shows then it's far less grave.

    If he's going to stripclubs regularly, alone and pays a girl dancing for him alone....then i think he has a problem. I wouldn't say cheating per se because the problem might be a whole different nature like loneliness and less on the part of unfaithfullness. But if this was the case i would weight it as much as cheating even though it's for whole different reasons.

  24. no, its just a form of entertainment, you should go to a male strip club and see how he feel about that

  25. i dont think its cheating. Do you think seeing a male stripper is cheating?

    Same goes both ways.


  26. YES! wow, i hope u know there are better things in life than strip clubs! i cant believe u even asked that!

  27. Going to the strip club?  No.  Giving the girl money...probably, unless you hand it to her (which typically does not happen in strip clubs).  However with your attitude you will end up divorced anyway.  Marriage is not about being "fair" it is about love, compassion and doing what is right.

  28. Technically unless he is kissing, having s*x with, touching her in a sexual way, or receiving oral from her, he isn't cheating. If he gives her his phone number, and/or meets her afterwards, that is definitely what I would classify as cheating. A lap dance in itself isn't cheating, it's a dance in which his clothes remain on, and from personal experience, I know in all the clubs I have been to alone or with my boyfriend, they are not allowed to touch the girls in anyway. And if they are naked, most clubs have a no contact rule for the dancers, which means, no touching the customer. The lap dance is not an entire song with the girl grinding on him, it is usually a rule that she cannot contact his lap for more than 6 seconds at atime, and dancers are told to keep moving around so if a guy does get out of hand, he can't hold her down on his lap. I've had dances myself, and so has my boyfriend. We've done double dances. It's all what you both are comfortable with. It does happen occasionally when guys are drunk and forget where they are and try to get away with a quick feel, but for the most part, it's pretty safe to say nothing but a tease is happening there. There are exceptions in every club, but it all matters what YOU feel is cheating. Some people feel if their man even looks at another girl they are being unfaithful. It's really up to you what you chose to believe is right or wrong in that situation. It all comes down to how much you really trust your man.

  29. No, it isn't cheating - it's just entertainment.  If it gets to the point where it affects your relationship, it still isn't cheating, but it does become an issue that needs to be addressed.

  30. Honestly, that would be up to the other person's partner to decide. I wouldn't care if my wife went to a strip club, but she doesn't like me to go to them so I respect that. I hope I helped!!!

  31. look, giving the girl money took it to far, but it was his last time as a single man he wanted to have some fun with buds and get to look at other girls with no consequences, go easy on him..... unless he does it again
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