Is having a crush when you are attached wrong? If you just flirt?

Question

Is having a crush when you are attached wrong? If you just flirt?

Answer 1

People flirt all the time.

My boyfriend rather enjoys watching me flirt with other guys when we go out.  I like the attention I get, and he likes watching me.  He knows that at the end of the day he is the only one who gets to have me body mind and soul.

If my guy looks at another woman and sees her as attractive, I try and find out what it is he likes about her.  It helps me get to know him better and what makes him tick.

I guess as long as everyone is secure in their relationship it's no big deal.  If I were dating someone insecure or insanely jealous/suspicious I would not flirt or entertain a crush.  Then again, I would not be in a relationship with someone so insecure.  

Answer 2

There is nothing wrong with a bit of harmless flirting as long as that is how it remains.  If it ever comes close to being something else then you must halt it immediately.

  There is 'never' an excuse to cheat - plenty to break off a relationship and pursue someone you want to see but never to hurt someone like that.

  Mot people flirt even though they're in relationships, it's your own way of letting yourself know you're still alluring to the opposite (or same) s*x.

hope that helps,

Ape.

Answer 3

How would it feel to you if the one your with was flirtting with other people.  It may be intended as harmless flirting but it's disrespectful to the one your with.  And unless your planning on taking it further why are you being such a tease anyway.  Why don't you try flirting with the one your attached to and leave the others alone.

Answer 4

its not wrong because we are all human and it is natural to feel attracted to other people. but if you respect your partner make sure you dont act on your feelings because you said it yourself that is only a crush, its not worth losing your partner over (you will get caught in the end)

Answer 5

wtf are you talking about

Answer 6

If you are married, then stop the crush now.  Marriage is final choice of partnership.  If this is just a boyfriend/girlfriend, then no.  You get to shop around while you have a boyfriend/girlfriend.

Answer 7

Yes it's wrong,  If you have a crush, that's fine, but to act on it by flirting is totally wrong.  it's showing no respect for the one you are with.  Ask yourself how you woiuld feel if the person you are attached to felt it was ok to flirt with someone they had a crush on.

Answer 8

If you are attached, then why would you be having a crush on someone else...of course it is wrong.  If you flirt, that is wrong too!!!  You already knew the answer to these questions, you just wanted someone to say that it is alright, but it isn't!  Put yourself in the other person's shoes and tell me if you feel that it is wrong?!!!!