Is having s*x awkward??

Question

Okay so like I'm not planning on having s*x any time soon. For at least three or four years. But I kinda keep thinking about it. Is it wakward when you do it for the first time. How does it work? Like I'm waiting till im married, so like if your just berly married and your in bed, how does it work. that sounds g*y i know, but like I dont want it to be weird. And is it awkward in the morning while youre getting ready for work? If your LDS and you wear garments, do you wear them to bed? And if you do, how do you get them off before you have s*x. Its kinda hard to explain what i wanna know. Like if i think about it, it seams naromal and not that bad, but if I think about it another way, I dont see how anything can happen without being weird. Anyway, thanks for you help. I sure could use it.

Answer 1

When you are ready you will know. It just kinda happens. Way to go for waiting!!

Answer 2

"so like if your just berly married and your in bed, how does it work. that sounds g*y i know..." I'm just wondering about your word choice there...g*y? How is waiting until you're married to have s*x a homosexual thing? This is new to me...

Anyways, the first time you do it it can be weird, and it won't be what you'll expect, and just like with any other thing in life, it takes practice for you to get good at it. Good luck. :)

Answer 3

wow. alot of concerns! Seriously..chill out. First of all..in your case..if your waiting til marriage..you'll already be in love with the person..so deeply that nonnne of that stuff will matter by then. You 2 will be so comfortable with eachother and know what the other likes and stuff. Trust me. im madly in love with my boyfriend..we dont think about any of that...we just "do".

Answer 4

Put simply.. It is awkward the first time. It was the same way with me, it was a bit strange the first few times, but you get used to it.

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Hope I helped.

Answer 5

yes it is very wakward.-blurey

Answer 6

Having s*x can absolutely be awkward, but making love to the person you will spend your life with will feel natural and full of all of the passion, affection, and love that you have for your spouse.

I also want to congratulate you on waiting for the right person at the right time.

Answer 7

usually you rip each others clothes off so it's not like it's some weird process of taking them off and if you have had any encounters of kissing or whatever you can see how it can get passionate and lead to other things.  your bodies just sort of naturally move together and it happens.  I am not going to lie the first time may be awkward if you are uncomfortable but if you are okay with your body and aren't worried that you haven't done it before it should be good.

Answer 8

Honestly, I think it'd be awkward if you waited till marriage, but that's just me.. Either way, you're probably too young, so give it time.

Answer 9

Some LDS parents will provide their son with an appropriate LDS approve d book on makinglove as they are going thru the temple, I don;t know if your parents wil be just as nice. As for temple garments, some have relations with them on, it can be done but it is no way to promote intimacy, so therefore they must be taken off for the makinglvoe session adn then put back on, I see no reason why a mormon cannot start in the shower (garmetns are already off). It depends on your blushing bride as well, how modest she wants to be and how she fills about the intimacy or lack of. There is also standards I have heard that mormons can only do certain things, but it is your body and your marriage and I know mormons do not like me to say that, but adam and eve were naked (no garments) so therefore...

Answer 10

If you marry the person and have been together a long time, know each other really well, then it isn't so awkward.  However, if the relationship is new, it can be a little weird.  As far as the clothes, that usually works itself out.  I don't know if mormons wear their clothes to bed, at least I think that's what you're asking about the LDS.  Either way, if you wear some kind of garment to bed, and end up having s*x, the garments easily find their way to the floor and your mind and their's is not exactly focused on the clothing, so it isn't awkward at all.  Unless things stall out on the bra but even still it's not that bad.

Answer 11

you and me baby aint nothing but mammals so lets do it like they do on the discovery channel

you dont think, you just act. s*x is instinctual.