Is he boyfriend material?

Question

Last year i got out of a long relationship (1 year and 4 months) and now i have finally met someone who i am considering being serious with but now i worry because the reason my last relationship fell apart at the end is because we had changed to much and we had a lack of communication in the last 2 months. Also, his family was very close and very republican. Not to say that it was the fact that they were so republican but it was just the way they portrayed it. Also, a lot of times my boyfriend was closed off about his emotions. I just don't want to get myself back in a situation like that. I just feel like i am putting myself back in a place that i have doubts that will work. I mean when i am around this new guy i just feel like i am walking on air but when i think about the dynamics and how similar they were to my last relationship i start doubting that it will work. i just don't know if it is worth getting into again.

Answer 1

Its definetly worth getting into again......but just wait i knw its difficult to get over a long relatonship,but if wasnt meant to be then it wasnt meant to be....you should TRY to get over ur Ex and THEN move on because everyone else is going to seem insufficent compared to him TRUST me not becus hes the BEST its because it was all u were used to TRUST me there are plenty f guys out there just dont expcet tooo much at first REMEMBER ....ur starting OVer .......i hpe this helped good luck :)  

Answer 2

You didn't give us enough information to answer your question.

Answer 3

Take things slow get to know him better and see where it leads. I am sorry your ex's family was so pro-Republican. I'm a Republican but not that bad by any means nor is my family. Look you just have to open yourself up a little at a time and get to know this guy. Be upfront with him, honest and respectful. Tell him why you are a little uneasy and maybe he can help put some of your fears to rest. Don't make him pay for what your last b/f did to you. Yet at the same time look at that as a learning experience. You have to try or else you could be missing out on something really good. If you begin to get those old feelings back talk to him about it and see what can be done. Good luck.  

Answer 4

A good boyfriend is someone who loves you Also, if you need something, he doesn't mind doing it for you. Basically, if he treats you well, respects your beliefs and needs, and is there for you when you need him, he is a good boyfriend

Answer 5

All people not the same, try to find your panther that is better

Answer 6

Any subsequent relationships you get into will involve risk. If you don't risk, you will not love and you can potentially miss out on something great. Take things slowly with this new guy and if the old habits are creeping out, think about whether they can be changed or not.