Is he cooling things to avoid that I might be his rebound?

Question

Two years ago I met the man of my dreams. Since then, I have become a widow and he has divorced and he was moving the last time I saw him. In one year, he moved nearer, and is happy that I send him notice of jobs back near where I live.would send him notice Now, he has moved back. He has not been answering my emails anymore and seems to be in transition. Now what?

Answer 1

Sounds like you have a lot going on. I would be hurt also if I were in your situation but I wouldn't push it, you may be just driving him away if you do that. I don't know many men who want to jump into something just after getting a divorce. Circumstances brought you guys back together, so I doubt it is the end right now, just maybe a pause.

Answer 2

if he's not answering u, i would wait and not keep contacting him. a man cools when he has someone else, or feels your not the one. don't let him think your pushing him in any way.  

Answer 3

Maybe you came on too strong or hes not as interested as you are?

Answer 4

Maybe he is playing the field.  

Answer 5

leave well enough alone.  you already answered your own question.  always go with your gut.  when he's ready, he'll come around, they always do.

Answer 6

He sounds like he may be trying to get his bearings. Maybe he decided he didn't like you as much. Maybe he is seeing someone else. It's hard to say. If you have had a good relationship with him, why not send him an email and say that you haven't heard from him in a while and wanted to know how he was doing. Maybe that will help. Good luck!  

Answer 7

Doesn't sound like he considers you to be the woman of his dreams. Don't wait for him - he's probably not coming back.

Answer 8

Sounds like he has met someone else. Just keep doing your everyday things and maybe in time he will call. If not, it wasn't meant to be.