Is he forbidden fruit?

Question

I am in my early forties and he is in his mid twenties, we are so hot for each other, do we or don't we?

Answer 1

If both single, go for it.

However, when relationships become serious, they run into several challenges:

-do you share enough of the same interests

-do you respect each other intellectually enough

-are you close in emotional maturity

-are you close in financial status

-will both families accept it...if not, can you both handle it

And the age difference typically increases many of these challenges.

But if the love is strong enough, you can overcome any challenge.

Answer 2

If you are BOTH not married, I say go for it!

Answer 3

Savannah I in fact know a couple with almost your exact age gap.  They are very happy.  But just realize he's a youngin and you may not be able to keep him wrangled for long.  If this involved cheating I'd avoid it.  It will almost assuredly end in tears.  Good luck

Answer 4

Remember in 10 years you will be in your fifties and he will be in his thirties. Dont know may guys in their thirties that want a fifity year old girl friend or wife.

Answer 5

Tell Oedipus I said 'hello'  

Answer 6

c**p... I would!  LOL

Answer 7

You are only as young as the one you feel!!!

Answer 8

DO IT!  age is nothing but a number!

Answer 9

Are you or he married?

Answer 10

YOU GO GIRL! But only if you are both single! You are both in your sexual prime...rock on!

Answer 11

nope, he is not forbidden fruit. but have in count that in a few years he might leave you for a younger woman.

Answer 12

If everyone is single then have at it.  You're both adults.  

Answer 13

sure as long as you are both single and consenting adults.  go for it

Answer 14

Are you both single?  If so, and as long as you play safely, no problem!

Aren't they cute when they're "almost 24"?  My girlfriend and I have heard this so often it's funny.  "Awww, sweetie, (pat pat pat on the head), you can only come home with me if you have a note from your mother!"  We never acted on our opportunities.

Just be sure you have a supply of Capn Crunch or Coco Puffs in the cabinet if you go for it!  And if you do get this little hottie in the sack, be careful you don't scare him.  We women over 40 can be a bit intimidating.....

And Val, as much as I love your answers, we are FAR from Grammas!!  My best friend will be 50 in October, is tall, thin and beautiful, rides a Harley and has "almost 24" year old guys chasing her all the time.  Age is only a number!  Me?  I'm 49, have a better body than most 20-somethings, and am living with a younger man.

I'm not bragging, just trying to destroy stereotypes.  Life is good when you're over 40!!

Answer 15

Do eat the fruit.  My wife is 7 years older than I am and I love it.  Yummy milf.  mmmmmm

Answer 16

Great, have fun.

Answer 17

uhh. i wouldnt but listen to your heart, Go for it if it tells you yes!

Answer 18

go for it   as long as your both  "single" and not married!!

Answer 19

Are you both single? You're both legal, consenting adults. Partake of the fruit. ;]

Answer 20

go for it hot momma! if you are ok with it and he is ok with it then go get you some! don't worry about what other people say just go get some!

Answer 21

as long as both of you are single, why not?

Answer 22

My close female friend is dating a 24 year old and She's in her late 30's.  If you're both single then Go for it!

Answer 23

Do

Answer 24

well ive giving up fighting the young ones off. i figure what the hey.  just dont involve your heart. if its purley physical and your cool with it, go for it

Answer 25

Rock N Roll baby!! You only live once.  No regrets!

Answer 26

What does age matter? If it is what you both want.. go for it!! I agree with others when saying.. as long as you both are not married! Have fun :)  

Answer 27

OK, whatever, grandma!

Answer 28

very funny!!!!

one question your are male and another question you are female?

Answer 29

If you are both single, then you should go for it. If either of you is married forget it.