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Is he into me or using me?

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My guy friend has been sending me txt 2-3 times a week to me overseas mobile and now when I'm in the same country for a holiday, he has been calling me everyday for a month and a half now. He asked me out, but I'm ovrloaded with work from my online company. I told him that I will be free in a month time. Sometimes when he calls me I'm with my clients and when I call him back, he's with his patients cos he is a GP. So, it's hard for both of us to develop the relationship. I feel that he likes me more than a friend, but my logic tells me to re-think. However, we went on 2 dinner dates already. The first one, we were tired from work, so didn't have a maximum enjoyment. The second one he took me to see a stage play, we had food poisoning! Now, he doesn't call me everyday, but every other day via txt or mobile cos when he calls me I'm with my clients most of the time. When I'm not in touch with him, he will txt or call me first. Now, I'm not sure if he is into me or using me cos he plans to have a clinical attachment in London and he plans to stay at my place. He sometimes acts more than just a friend level, so I'm not sure if all these sweet things are in exchange for future help from me, or he is into me, or he is interested but he may think I'm a L*****n or I send a confusing signal. Help!

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  1. I don't  THINK HE'S INTO YOU, BUT I don't THINK HE's using you NEITHER.

    answr my questions,please?


  2. Don't listen to the abow they dodon'teally know everything if I was you I would talk to him this is always the best way u have nothing to lose. Good luck

  3. Huh?

    what this question has to do with Programming and Designing?

    Do you want us to write one algorithm to find out whether he's using you or not??

    Ok there it goes..

    var guy,you;

    if (guy calls you && try to be in touch)

    {

      Print:Guy is interested in you for sure!

    ..Print:Guys seems ok depends further on conditions

    if(he understands you are busy&& dont get impatient)

    {

    print:Guy is polite and decent!

    }

    outer if ends }

    If(you & guy pretend always busy )

    {

    Print: Guy and You will miss to know each other.

    if ends }

    else if(Guy ask You to spend some quality time)

    {

    Print: Guy is definitely looking something in you.

    If(Guy asks Out of the box like staying 2gther &&You can afford it)

    {

    If(You are sure enough && You are intrested in Guy too)

    {

    Print: Sure Go ahead!

    }

    else

    Print: Drop the idea of staying 2gether +Tell Guy you need some more time to understand him

    if(Guy still understands && Keep texting You)

    {

    Print: Bingo! he's the right shoulder to bury your head on.

    }

    }

    else Print: Move-On Girl!

    }

    ENDS

    LOL ..better be careful by next time while posting a question ..hehe

    We can make anything into algo!

    Note: every { has its relative close } so beware of condition nesting

    Cheers:)


  4. using you

  5. Try posting this in Singles and Dating.  You're not going to get good responses in a Computer section.

  6. Wrong category.

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