While I was separated, I borrowed $1500 from a younger man (24). I am 37. I did not return the money but got back with my husband. The younger guy was upset because he "loved" me. I had my husband threaten him because of this so he would stop saying I used him. I did not have s*x with him or anything, we just talked a lot online. Now, we made up and I have asked him for more money over the last year. I realize it has now racked up to about $4000.
Now he sends me an email saying he sold his motorcycle cause he had it on a credit card ($10,000) and knew it was a poor financial move. He said he enjoys buying things that are expensive and he realized he has to calm down cause he has a future to think about. He said the reason he can help me is because he makes good money through his work, which he does. Then he sent me a budget calculator and told me he really wants me to get out of this bad situation I am in. He said he cared about me and told me he knows how important my daughter is and understands the stress.
Well... I found out he has been doing a little bit of background checks on me (like asking my sisters about me and my husband through my space, posing as another person). It seems hes worried about his money and what its going towards.
I know I have not paid him anything for two years but is he justified asking people about us to try to find out if we're using the money because we actually need it?
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