Is he lying or just making it up?

Question

What would you think if your husband posted in a yahoo group that he was still seeing his ex and having s*x with her a couple of times a month? He was unaware that I had seen it and when asked said he just made it up. I just accidentally stumbled upon this. I truly believe that he never thought I would see it. Should I take what he says at face value (trust him that he says he made it up) or take what he said (about sleeping with her) as the truth?

Answer 1

Truth, sorry.  

Answer 2

If you had no other signs, I would bet 70% he is telling the truth to you and he just made it up.  30% chance he has been totally doing her on the side and he's really discreet about it.

Answer 3

ok, he didn't think you would see. ask yourself why would a MARRIED man post such a thing? especially knowing you wouldn't see? Think about it now...

Answer 4

There's no reason to make something like that up. It must be true.

Answer 5

Any man that would even just make something like that WHILE married can't be trusted.  Hun, give yourself a smack, I'm sure you know whats going on here.  Perhaps it's time for some couples therapy.....even if just for your own peace of mind.

Answer 6

Why would someone post that if they are not doing that or fantasizing about that.  He is in the wrong.

Answer 7

pffttt its obvious hes cheating on u

Answer 8

Let me ask you something...

Did you really think he would say " Yes honey, I did sleep with my ex a few times and Yes that post is true " ??? Like really? Can you expect that type of an answer from him if he really is doing those things?? Of course he's going to say he made it up... If he tells you the truth, he knows the consequences.

So yes, he is lying to you, because if I did something like that and wanted to cover it up, I would say the same exact thing... "I made it up."  

Answer 9

In your Heart of Hearts... You know it to be true... He is cheating, lying to you. If you believe him, your just as stupid as he sees you.

Why would He hide any info from you, Marriage is a open book policy between you and He. Never hide or hold back anything ... It can come back and bite you in the *** later.

Go to the source... Ex wife.. Ask her about it. It may surprise you, the truth may come to a head.

Answer 10

He is not just making it up.... don't be a fool and let him play mind games with his lies. I'm not saying you should leave him if you don't think this is a deal breaker but don't be dumb about it. If a man thinks he can lie to you he always will.