Is he my real brother?

Question

i was adopted, and so was the older brother that i grew up with. when our aprents told us, they also said that we were still real brother and sister, but on his adoption certificate it has the names of his real parents though, but on mine it just says unknown. is it possible that we are still real brother and sister?

Answer 1

without a doubt, never even have such a thought. just because u ain't got a name on the certificate, it doesn't mean he is not your real brother. and moreover you guys were brought up together just as real brother and sister. luv him as ur real bro itself.

Answer 2

Doubtful that you are biologically brother and sister. If his parents were known to place on his birth certificate then yours should have also been if they were the same ones. Likely they are telling you the two of you are really brother and sister is because they don't want you do anything sexual with each other, or don't want you to feel like you aren't family for some other reason.

Answer 3

You may not be blood related, but you are still brother and sister. You grew up together, you fought, you laughed, you cried together. That is what makes a brother and sister...blood isn't everything.

Answer 4

You might not be biologically connected, but you were raised together so that is your brother. Take and grasp the concept that you have a family some people don't have a family at all.

Answer 5

Well, by what's on the adoption certificates, it doesn't sound like you're blood related, but you can always get DNA testing if you really need to know if you're blood related siblings.

As to being "real" brother and sister???

I'd call you real brother and sister because you grew up together.

cw

Answer 6

i think people are misunderstanding the actual question.

it's not about whether she loves her brother!!!!  it's about whether or not she is actually related, as in, born of the same parents.

from my experience, i think it's possible.  just because one AC is filled out more than the other, it doesn't mean much by american adoption standards.

if it's possible, i would ask your parents.  if not, you have some detective work ahead of you:)

stop by adultadoptees.org if you want some further help-

Answer 7

perhaps, but i doubt your foster parents would lie to u if they were honest about being adopted soo i dunno sorry no-one can tell you, its still possible tho =] x*x

Answer 8

Sorry if I hurt you when I say the following. Your parents might say that your real siblings, but in heart-to-heart only because of course you still love them. Jealousy is what you should never have. If you think and feel in your heart that you are real siblings, then believe it!

Answer 9

I think you should ask your parents and ask them to be really honest with you.

Since they told you the truth already, I don't think they will hide something again.

Bit he is your brother doesn't matter blood or not.

Answer 10

yea it is