Is he perfect? or im i wrong?

Question

so theres this guy at my school. we are best friends but i like him as more.we are already best friends and we tell each other everything. i even told him that i like him and he said that he doesn't mind that i like him.still we are best friends.every night i think about him and i cant go to sleep cuz im thinking of him.i jus get so mad cuz he likes me too but we will never be more then friends cuz we dont want to ruin the friendship that we have.yet sometimes i think i may have fell in love with him. i dont know. plz help me.

Answer 1

Maybe it's better to let things flow and maintain the friendship you have built because you are so lucky to have him and as well as he to have you as her friend. Everything starts with a strong foundation of friendship. Now, it is up to you and it is your choice and also his choice on how you will let things work out. The future, we never know what will happen and what it brings but the choices and decisions we make today from the smallest to the biggest will someday determine how our lives will come out. Love is really a gift from God and such a great feeling. At least with your truthfulness and honesty to each other made your friendship stronger and didn't ruin it as what had happened to some friends who tell their true feelings for their best friend.

Do not rush things... Things will come out at the perfect time.

But do what makes you happy. Maybe you can ask him if also what he wants for your relationship to be as meaningful as he and you would want it to be. Because if he can only offer friendship and you give more than you recieve from him, things won't work out.

Relationships whether friendship, special attractions, and couples, both parties must give and take not give and give or take and take. We cannot give what we do not have.

Answer 2

you can choose to take a step further in relationship with him...but i feel that if you decide to do that, you are risking your friendship with him...but if you don't risk you will never know how far your relationship with him can go...i used to be in the same situation as you only thing is that its far more complicated...its far more easier to be friends than lovers...but no harm giving each other a chance...go for it...

Answer 3

i think your current friendship is better than falling in love..really trust me

Answer 4

You know, it's sooo normal to fall in love with ur best friend that the whole "ruining friendship" thing ends up so cliche. You like him, he likes you, what's the problem? You can be friends while being a couple. Unless the problem is that you have a crush on him, but he hasn't, so you can never be together.

Answer 5

i don't think you should try to take this further, after all, you told him you like him and he didn't say it back or say he felt that way, which means he doesn't, cause he would've told you since you tell each other everything. i know this kind of situation, if you do hook up things will change you wont be best mates etc you probably just think you love him  but after you hook up you'll realise you dont. it may be becasue you know you can't have it that you like him. seriously don't go there

Answer 6

If he said you two shold be just friends, then he doesn't like you.