Alright, so my boyfriend and I have talked about marriage seriously and decided we are going to wait until after I finish my graduate schooling. We are currently living together and I probably won't go to grad school for another year and a half and will be gone probably two years. I've been joking with him lately about an engagement ring, but told him I want to be engaged before I go to grad school. I kept bringing up engagement (probably 3 or 4 times in a week), mostly jokingly harassing him, and he said that I need to calm down because he has something planned and I have no clue. Should I believe him that he really has something planned or is this just a guy's way of getting me to shut up about it? He has told me many times that he wants to marry me and spend the rest of his life with me, so I don't think he's trying to get out of it but I'm not sure. Should I just let it go since really there IS no rush?
Also: How do you go about letting the guy know what kinda ring to get you? I've never been engaged before, so I'm not sure how it works. Do we go look at rings together and then he picks later? I don't want him to choose something that I don't like, but I also don't want to be pushing the engagement thing on him right now if he wants me to back off. How do I let him know what I want without being too pushy?
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