Is he really obsessed with me?

Question

You see, there's this guy who likes me. People tell me that he wants to do "it" with me, he wants me, and he thinks about me. When I ask them how they knew, they say "He told us." And this guy doesn't talk to me. His friends tell me that he wants to take pictures of me or he's trying to take pictures of me. Everybody is saying the same thing over and over again.

He makes me feel so scared. I'm so scared to go outside or talk to people. I'm scared and sick of tired of people telling me about this guy! I really want to know if he's really obsessed with me. And sometimes, I feel like what I should do to avoid feeling scared or escape this nightmare. I feel like I shouldn't live anymore and if I don't live anymore, he'll regret it. I kind of want him to feel regretful but I don't want to risk my life.

People wouldn't stop talking about this guy. I can't sleep, eat, or concentrate because of people telling me about this guy. Is he obsessed with me? What should I do?

Answer 1

um....either he's obsessed- or you have really jealous friends. :) don't kill ur self. this is just a big crush. tell him if you want 2. it'll help ya eat and sleep

Answer 2

Just ask him if he is it will show, or wait until he snaps then you won't be wondering you'll know for real (LOL) , don't play games there people that never lived to play.

Answer 3

You say everyone is saying these things over and over, why are you listening? Don't allow any of this talk. Your sick of all these people telling you about this guy? Stop allowing this. You are in control of the situation as far as the gossip. If you allow your friends to continue to bring him into conversations you have with them then they too will feel you are obsessed with him, which I  feel at this point is the case. Ignoring all subjects and conversations about this guy will be repeated to him and he will then move on. If not a parent should be told about these concerns you are having. good luck

Answer 4

first confront him in a public place (its safer)

if he still scares you go to someone for help.

Answer 5

he sounds like a stalker

hes possibly obessed or everyone just started a really bad rumor about him

Answer 6

To be quite honest it sounds like people are spreading rumors and unfortunately he's too shy or maybe too cowardly to confront the people starting and spreading them.

It also seems like he's scared of confronting you in case you humiliate him or something, he might be a fragile person that has been overwhelmed by all the embarrassment of the lies and instead of denying them he just tries to shut it all out.

Just in case this isn't the case make sure you get his number instead of going to meet him and make sure you call him from a payphone because if he is obsessed with you it wouldn't be a good idea to let him have your phone number.

(it shouldn't be hard to get his number from someone)

Call him and tell him to take his time and explain what's going on, make sure he knows you haven't called him to accuse him of anything.

If you are sure he is stalking you or you carry on feeling scared, go to the police.