Is he still into me? 10 pts best answer?

Question

I'm kinda insecure (although I hide it very well) and I was hanging out with this guy the other day and we were laying on the couch watching a movie when he asked how much i liked him and i told him a lot. then he asked me if I would go on a date with im and I said "definitely" THEN he asked me if in the future (if things keep going well) if I would consider being his girlfriend and I said "I could definitely see that happening"....but the thing is, is yesterday I called him and we talked for a few minutes and I told him to call me when he was done cleaning. but he never called me back. I was told that if a guy forgets to call you back hes not into me anymore. but the way he talked the other day made me think that he was....? Is it just my insecurity kicking in or what...?

Answer 1

okay hes still into you hes a person. and well people make mistakes where not perfect we forget. like one time i forgot 2 call my boyfriend but it didnt  change anything just dont worrie about it. =]

Answer 2

Just give him a little time.  Something may have come up and he couldn't call back.  

Answer 3

Area secure

Answer 4

I think there's two possible scenarios going on here:

either:

a] he is actually a very confident guy and quite aware of his attractiveness,- this is why he was brave enough to ask you those questions right off the bat. This smacks of someone who gets a kick out of seeing he can have you, though he doesn't really want you that much = failing to return your call. By being so obvious and saying 'yes, you would definitely have him and like him alot' you have bored him a bit - after all, most guys like a challenge and, by saying those things, he realises there's no chase or challenge involved. You're just too 'easy'.

OR

b] he likes you, but is inexperienced and building up to how he's going to take things from here. He failed to call you back because he simply forgot - it doesn't always mean a guy's not interested in you. Many guys are a bit disorganized and maybe his friends came round or something was on tv and he forgot. Or perhaps he's been a tiny bit overwhelmed by your directness and confidence when answering his questions.

If I were you I would not play so easy to get. Don't phone him again until he phones you. Let him woo you and do the work at getting you. Make sure you don't fall into his arms or act romantic unless he is being romantic and thoughtful. Make sure he takes you on a couple of dates before you agree to be anything or do anything significant.

Answer 5

ask him but be very serious

Answer 6

Be patient, it sounds like he likes you. However, my experience tells me that letting a guy know you're really into him too soon in the relationship can cause them to run. Wait it out, maybe he had something urgent come up.  Don't just sit around waiting for his call either.......

Answer 7

Well... i know that when i get annoyed, i forget things, and i'm terrible with phone numbers...

Is the guy shy around you? if he is, then he probably likes you a lot, but hasn't got the courage to phone... mabye you should make up an excuse to phone him, and just drop it in casually asking him why he didn't phone...

Of course, you don't have to take my advice, i might be completely wrong.

But i doubt that he's not into you anymore if he recently asked to go out with you...

Answer 8

well a guy wont ask you those kind of questions if he is not into you so my best bet is yes he is into you. and also i just wanna let you know that guys like girls who are secure and confident in themselves so instead of always assuming the worst force yourself to think differently. be happy in your skin be proud that you are you and this guy will like you just the way you are. and if he forgets to call you once in awhile dont worry  bout it guys can be forgetful like that hahah but if it happens often then i'd say forget him. give him a call and talk to him for awhile..plan out what to say before hand incase of an awkward silence but most of all dont change who you are but let your inner you shine with lots and lots of confidence and i can almost guarentee you'll have this guy hooked on you(:

good luck!

Answer 9

He probably simply forgot to call you back. I can't count how many times I forgot to call a girl back.

I think you are getting ahead of yourself and giving yourself bad ideas and thoughts. Just wait and see what happens, if this keep happening, you know he keeps  "forgetting" future calls  then you need to confront him and ask what's up.

Answer 10

well why dont you just call him the next day, maybe he'll call back, you know maybe he was hanging out with his friends or something

Answer 11

Slow down!  What's the rush.  Find something you enjoy and keep busy.  Hanging around waiting for the phone to ring is kind of sad.  Call your friends and go for a soda.

Answer 12

lol it doesnt mean that. maybe he got busy or fell asleep. just because he's not thinking about you every second of the day doesnt mean he doesnt like you anymore. Every now and then I'll forget to do something for my boyfriend, who I've been with for almost 8 months, and I still love him exponentially. then again i have a horrible memory. But maybe he does too. I mean idk but i would think its a little your insecurity. Call him again and see how he talks to you. does he seem annoyed or apathetic? does he apologize or sound apologetic? If he doesnt, do you really want a guy that doesnt care that much about what happens between you two?