Is he still into me?

Question

There is a guy that I have been friends with for 3 years. At the beginning of July we started "talking". Both of us just coming out of bad relationships we decided that it was best to only talk for awhile. We continued to hang out and make-out, but that was it. Until recently when I stopped him from taking it any further. Telling him that I wasnt ready to take what we had any further physically if we weren't making a commitment to each other. He said that was fine and seemed ok with my decision. After that we have talked and I told him about something that happened to me, which is the reason why I'm not comfortable having s*x casually. Since then though he has disappeared. I havent heard from him in over two weeks. I dont know what to do now. He has been a friend for so long that what ever I do I dont want to mess that up. I'm not sure what to think about this though. He is 20 so he should be able to handle this better right? Or should I just give it more time, and keep waiting on him?

Answer 1

yep he's still inside you and he better pull out unless u want a kid..

ohh wait did u say into you or inside you???

Answer 2

you should wait

cus if he might just be taking all of that in and its a guy so honey try talking to him but if he doesnt talk back then let him be and realize that he misses you....

Answer 3

without knowing all the details of what you told him, it is not clear how well he's handling this but, generally speaking, 20 year old guys are pretty immature.  however, it doesn't seem to matter.  if he disappeared for weeks, I would say he's moved on.

Answer 4

Babe it sounds like Mr. man has flown the coop. I'm so very sorry to hear that this has happened to you <= |  honestly, I really am sorry to hear it. It's always a shame when pressure makes a guy freak out.

You'll have to face these facts some day and you'll find that waiting was a waste of time <= (

Just try to move on and forget about him for a little bit. This has got to have been a big thrash in your relationship, so just keep moving forward. Either with.... or without him.

- Hex

Answer 5

love

Answer 6

No it sounds like he hates you.

Answer 7

if this guy is your friend, he would be there to help you.  over two weeks how much time does he need? move on it is not meant to be.

Answer 8

i don't know