Is he thinking of me as his girlfriend?

Question

I have a guy that's een in my life on and off for almost two years. He hasn't been ready in the past for a serious relationship, and I haven't been assured that I think he might be worth the risk. After being separated this time for just a month, and he being the one that pushed away, he called me last Saturday. We spent the weekend together, just cuddling, not even kissing. Monday, he made a day-long date with me for Saturday. This is exciting, but I still don't know what he's thinking. He's super busy at work this week, so I don't want to pester him...but I'd like to know what he might be thinking. Are we "together" as boyfriend/girlfriend?

Answer 1

no, not unless he says that you are. i would give it some time before you trust him completely. he sounds a bit shady to me.

Answer 2

if you have to ask then not.. well not yet anyway

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Answer 3

Reading your question,I feel tht more than him,its you who are thinking of him as your boyfriend.

Answer 4

If he wasn't "ready" for a serious relationship before, how does one date make him more "ready"? He is thinking of you as someone who is available to him when he's bored. If it was a serious relationship, it wouldn't be "on and off", it would just be "on". If you want a boyfriend, I suggest you move on and find one.