Is he too old for me?...Pleaseee help!?

Question

I am 14 and he is 18. I a freshman in HS and him a Freshman in college. We both really like eachother alot and we just love spending time together. We have a TON in common. Last night we layed in my back yard until like 1 am just looking up at the stars and talking. it was really nice. Today when we were at the park we were laying down in the grass when he was like "I know what your thinking" so I asked him what I was thinking and he said "The same thing I am but we need to be closer" and then he leaned in and kissed me. It was sweet and innocent. But is he too old for me?

Answer 1

My personal opinion - yes.  He is much too old for you.  You're barely in highschool and he is either a senior or already a graduate.

Answer 2

No. A four year age difference is nothing.

"That's what I love about these high school girls, man. I get older, they stay the same age."

Answer 3

i would say it does not matte if you were 18  and he was 22 but thats not the case i would say he is to old for you. plus you could get him thrown in prison for 5 years and 14  is stilled considered a child in the law so he would also be a petafile  

Answer 4

He is not too old, i am 18 years old seeing a 26 year old, and have been on and off since i was 14. best thing that ever happened to me . I love him a lot more then i ever loved anyother boyfriend!!!

Answer 5

AGE DONT MATTER!!!

Answer 6

no go for it. it is only 4 years. there are people who are like 35 years apart

Answer 7

nope, not at all

you guys sound really cute together

:D

age isn't anything when it comes to love

no matter what other people say

Answer 8

no, age is nothing but a number. don't let him being 4 years older stop you. if you wanna get serious with him, then do it. age doesn't affect any of your feelings, right? :D

Answer 9

What the h**l is wrong with the guy that he can't get someone his own age but is F'ing a little girl.

I hope he goes to jail that paedophile pathetic coward freak.

Marco!

Answer 10

I think that hes to old fo ru to date but not for u to be friends!

for a while just be chill with eachother k? dnt officially like date or anything or wat not jsut be good friends!

I would say he wasnt too old for u if I new for sure no matter what u werent going to ahve s*x with him but everyon is differnt

that might be why he "likes" u

all I say is be CAREFUL! plz! but have fun!

good luck

:)

Answer 11

4 years don't matter in real life.  However, at your age it MATTER.  An 18 years old person is an Adult, and you're NOT!  He can go to Jail for having any indecent relations with you.  Think about that.

Now if you were 20 and him 24, that would be perfectly fine.