Is he trying WITHOUT trying to GET me PREGNANT?hat would you like to ask?

Question

My job starts in 2 weeks. My fiance said he'd pay for my birth control pills but hasn't yet and there $15. We've been using the withdrawal method and I know it's not 100% effective. I have no money right now. Should I ask a family member for the cash so I won't get pregnant? It doesn't bother him using the withdrawal method so should it bother me?

Answer 1

$15 pills are much cheaper than a baby... return soda bottles if you have to!

Answer 2

Sooner or later you'll get pregnant this way. Trust me! I have 3 kids!!!

by doing that...lol

Go to a community clinic, or they're other programs that'll give you free condoms.

Answer 3

How about you don't have s*x until you can "afford" it? There's a novel idea. Otherwise don't b*tch when you get pregnant. Be responsible.

Answer 4

how old are...if you dont even have 15 dollars to your name you should not even consider preganancy a possibility...you sound a bit of an air head to me but whatever good luck i would rather ask someone for 15 bucks  then be asking them for baby diapers and baby food later

Answer 5

USE A CONDOM or ABSTAIN altogether. That will get him down to the Pharmacy.

He's probably just trying to hold onto his money and isn't thinking of the consequences.

Answer 6

One thing that you should keep in mind,  the people that use the withdrawal method are typically called parents.

Tell your boyfriend he has two choices,   Get you the 15 buck for birth control, or live with blue balls until you can afford them yourself.

Yep, people do make it work when a woman gets pregnant, but in today's world the person making it work is often times the woman on her own.

Answer 7

Borrow the money as having a baby is a huge decision and the withdrawal method is not 100% effective. If you not ready don't do it!

Answer 8

maybe you should just keep your legs crossed for two weeks - if you are going to get married and raise a family then you  need to grow up and start thinking straight. If you cant figure this out then you have no business getting married you are too immature.

Answer 9

look, if u have insurance, thae best think to do is go to a gynecologist, and tel him you want birth control he will show u all kinds of those, and some of the offices they have free samples, like pills and stuff like that, i work in a ob/gyn office, and i have seen cases!! just take care of ur self, a babay is not easy, if u dont have money now, u wont have it for later, and hopefully is not going to be late!! take care

Answer 10

I agree with the first answerer. Are you not even intelligent enough to spend $4 on a box of condoms?

Grow up and stop thinking with your genitals. If you do not want to get pregnant then take some responsibility and handle it.

Answer 11

Cany help but think if you are even begining to think about getting prgnant by this guy you should at least be able to ask him yourself, you are either mature enough to ask, and plan a baby, or you are not