Is he trying to start an affair??

Question

A married man always stares at one woman he works with, smiles a lot at her, always tries to run into her, drops what he's doing to say hi, never moves out of her way when she's walking by (even though he knows she will have to "squeeze by" - and he moves for other people!); holds the door for her everywhere and makes it clear he's doing it just for her...

He casually touches her hand and keeps his there; he gets really close to her when talking, checks out her body, makes time for her when he's really busy just because she asked for something... The other day, he was talking to a few people on one side of the room, she was behind him talking to someone else. He kept glancing over at her during his conversation, always checking to see if she was there and if she would look – when his conversation was done, he walked by her and they both stared at each other.

He knows that this woman is also married and pregnant – and so is his wife. Still, that hasn’t stopped the way he has acted towards her for many months now.

Does this mean he wants something to happen between them? Is this a crush?

Answer 1

    Isn't this the third or forth time you've asked this question?

Answer 2

She needs to have a DNA test on the baby... cuz it's 50% chance he got both those bitchez preg! sux

Answer 3

Yeah its a crush. Especially when its so obvious to others.I know one thing  woman are  very enchanting while they are pregnant and you said Both these women are.He could be very attracted to that alone.

Lets see what they do with it,they are adults mabey it wont lead to anything  you know women become  more emotinally attached to their  signifigant others right after childbirth.Could be some weird kind of adult Prenatal attachment phase.

My thoughts.... It will end after the babies are born

Answer 4

maybe he just likes pregnant women  

Answer 5

That is called Sexual Harassment.

Tell the "woman" that & if she doesn't like his attention she should put a stop to it by telling him exactly what his behaviour constitutes.

Answer 6

It means he's a p.o.s.  Pay attention to your husband, not another woman's husband.

Answer 7

sounds like the affair has already started.

Answer 8

He is absolutely inappropriate, and he is interested in seeing if there is something between them. He is a pig, plain and simple, and she should be looking for a new job to protect her marriage.

He will find a new victim in the future. He is right now smitten with her,.

I knew a married man high school teacher who had an infatuation with another female teacher, who was single. He had been following her around. She was divorced, but friendly to everyone, Finally, he cornered her in a part of the school few went through, and tried to be sexually inappropriate. He was rejected, pushhed away,  but she went into therapy, feeling raped.

He quickly started after a new conquest when he saw nothing was going on between them. Additionally, he had many affairds in the past which his wife had no info on, but the teachers knew.

I wiped him oiff my list of of friends when I realized he was basically a predator.