Is he worth it???????

Question

Last year I was going out with this boy for about 6 months and I know this sounds stupid but he was my first love! (hahahaa) he was the most amazing lad ever! and he eventualy said he didnt want to be with me anymore, but we were still close. I told my cousin all about him and told her how much I like him.. I went on holiday and came back and guess what! Shes been going out withh him! but he has got a girlfriend! Im realy hurt! I cant beleive she did this to me! I dont want to say anything to her, but it isnt the first time she has done this to me! I dont know if I should be boverd and if I should forget him, but its so hard!

Answer 1

Hon, she  didn't "force" him,"trick " him away from you, HE went WILLINGLY!

He is just as bad as she is.Dump him and tell her she is not recognized as a cousin by you anymore and have nothing else to do with her,or him.

The fact is, he used YOU and now he is using her.Why?

Because HE CAN!The girls are all lined up waiting their turn too.

Answer 2

OK, first of all, you need to not bring your boyfriends around your cousin. For whatever reason, she  thinks she can't get her own men, so she just takes yours. That sucks!

You need to talk to your cousin and tell her that you don't appreciate her dating the guys that you were just in a relationship with. If she continues to act this way, you will have to put some distance between you and her. Friends don't do that to each other......and if she thinks its ok, she is not your friend!

Good Luck!

Answer 3

I know its hard ,but try to forget them both. shes someone you cant share your personal life with. keep your men away from her. if you can get him you n get someone else.

Answer 4

Forget them both

Answer 5

FORGET ABOUT HIM AND KEEP AWAY FROM HER.  AS SHE IS FAMILY YOU MUST ACKNOWLEDGE HER BUT LEAVE IT TO HELLO AND GOODBYE

Answer 6

if my cousin snaked me i'd kill him! perhaps not literally but thered be full out war. obviously hes not wort it but surely the betrayal of your cousin is far worse. and what do u mean its not the first time this hasd happened??? why the f*** do u still speak to her??

Answer 7

i say forget them both, this cousin of yours obviously isn't bothered if she hurts you and as for the bloke, forget everything about him there is someone else out there for you that will make you feel ten times better than he ever did