Is is okay to get drunk with a guy who has a gf?

Question

My guy friend and I got absolutely trashed together to the point where I threw up. I wanted to sleep over and stay on his couch, but he said his girlfriend would not approve. But I find it hard to believe that she would approve of us drinking together. He refers to me as his best friend..and we basically hang out everyday....He even cooks for me. What's going on here?

(By the way, he's in a long-distance relationship with his gf)

Answer 1

i think i'd get mad if my boyfriend was drinking with another girl, just because you never know what people are going to do when their drunk.

he needs to talk to his girlfriend about it.

&you need to respect the fact that he has one, even if he's in along distance relationship.

although if you guys were best friends before he started dating this chick then thats a different story.

Answer 2

its fine!!!! only if nothing happened  

Answer 3

It sounds to me like he wants there to be something between the two of you, but can't because of his conscience. It seems like he's more concerned with his girlfriend will think rather than what the circumstances actually are.

If you two legitimately just friends he should tell his girlfriend that there is nothing going on and your sleeping on his couch doesn't make him love her any less.

But, why would he cook for you? I don't know, he probably has feelings for you but can't bring himself to break up with his girlfriend.

Answer 4

if his gf doesn't respect that you two are best friends then tough 2 month old cookies! you should be able to do what ever you want to do with him except a certain biological activity and even small little pecks should be allowed i mean i would let my gf do that if she had another guy best friend.

Answer 5

He was probably scared that something would happen if you stayed the night.

Answer 6

LMAO hes confused

and if there is any kind of attraction gf or not somethings bound to happen it just depends on u

hes cute for tryin

and i say dont but to each their own  

Answer 7

this is not good

Answer 8

NO!

Answer 9

I think you guys are closer than he and his gf are, not just literally. Doesn't it seem awkward? He cooks for you????  Not a normal friend relationship

Answer 10

definitely it is a BIG "NO". You know the answer but you hope you can find someone that can tell you what you are doing is right. Don't be so naive. Just imagine if your bf done the same, would you forgive him?

Answer 11

he wants to nail you too.

Answer 12

i have a friend like that although im sure he would drop me off at home if i was trashed or need be let me sleep on the couch.  it sounds like he has a jealousy girlfriend and they have trust issues.