Is is remotely possible!?

Question

Is it possible that a lot of women who choose to date married men do so because they believe it will be easier to gain a husband by dating a man who obviously is willing to marry than by dating one they are not sure will be willing to take the plunge.

This is just a thought I had while reading some of your questions today.

Answer 1

no they date them because the married ones can't ask them to be faithful...

Answer 2

Nope. I think women who want married men likes the chase. Like in the westerns, in the old days, the gunmen had notches on his gun showing how many men he has killed

Answer 3

They should listen to Blanche from the Golden Girls, she said

"I never date a married man. They always feel guilty and buy the really good presents for their wife."

Answer 4

I think it is because things (people) that are already spoken for are more desirable.  

Answer 5

It's possible, but I bet there are more common reasons. You know, you'd also have to ask what they expect in the future from a man they KNOW is willing cheat on his wife.  

Answer 6

I hope not.  It means they'd be getting a husband who would also be much more likely to cheat and date other women.  I like to think women are smarter than that.

Answer 7

I think they date married men because they don't have to worry about love, relationship, or anything.  Plus, he is going to be very attentive toward them because he's sick of his wife.

Answer 8

A woman dates a married man knowing nothing will come out of it but for some reason that dumb woman thinks she will change his mind which never works!

Answer 9

Women are biologically programmed to mate with men that other women also want to mate with.  This is the best strategy to have sons who will mate a lot, and pass the mother's genes all over.  For men, a woman having s*x with many other men ... was historically likely to be pregnant.  Its not a big plus.

You can see this right from high school, where women are far more worried about whether their friends think a guy is good looking or not.  For men, if a woman looks fertile to you but not your friend, what's the risk, from an evolutionary standpoint - very little.  For women, if she thinks a man is desireable, but nobody else does, she should not mate with him, since she might produce undesireable sons.

Men are programmed to sleep with the best looking woman available at any given point in time.  Women are programmed to sleep with the best male's available over the course of a year.  They all want the same guys, basically.

Answer 10

I agree good point

Answer 11

Maybe...what a dumb thought though. In doing that they are also looking to hopefully marry a man that would cheat on his wife, whether it be his wife while he's cheating or the mistress after he married her. I'd rather date a guy who's NEVER EVER going to marry me as opposed to dating a guy that could quite possibly cheat on me...and is also going home to his "real" wife.

Answer 12

I'm not saying all woman do this, but I think it's a 'game' for those that s***w around with married men, kind of a sport.  A self-esteem booster for the trolls.  How stupid it would be to date a married man, knowing the pig will do the same to her.  

Answer 13

I think some women are drawn to married men because they see them as a challenge.  I also think these women like the thrill of breaking the wife's heart...it somehow makes them feel better about themselves, like they have the upperhand and control.  I think these women are dumb...if he will leave his wife for you, he will leave you for someone else as well...DUH!

Answer 14

i think it could be...........for some.