As an adoptive parent I do want to be sensitive and respect my children's feelings including their feelings about Loss.
I have to admit however, that I am not 100% convinced these feelings are all about adoption.
I have always been a Deep Person, always sensitive and diagnosed rather young as "Clinically Depressed" And FOR me the description has always (from age 5) been a feelings of "Missing" something.
As a left-handed person I recall hearing some study years ago that suggested a Lefty had Absorbed their Right Hand Mirror Twin and I thought that just had to explain this feeling I had.
I can speculate that I felt this loss because my parents were forced to be married, but, that seemed nuts to me... Or that my grandfather passed when I was 3 and I miss him.
I am wondering is it possible that some of us just Feel this Feeling we call Loss and the adopted people have something more than I have to explain it?
I mean this question with No Disrespect.
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