Is it O.K for a 14 year old to date? Be detailed!!!!!?

Question

Is it O.K for a 14 year old to date? Be detailed!!!!!?

Answer 1

of course

**** whoever said to wait till 16

they dont know how to be awesome

Answer 2

um yeah!

my first bf was 2nd grade

lol

but my first REAL bf was when i was 12

gosh its just a little date

its not like girls gone wild or any thing

sheesh

Answer 3

Hey okay so im am a 14 year old girl in 8th grade but most 14 year olds are in high school

i think high school is a very good age to let you kid start dating because i know in my school like everyone has a boyfriend or a girlfriend so i think if you don't let your child date at age 14 i think he/she will think you don't trust her

that is one of the last things you want to happen is have them not trust you because they will think you treat them like a baby (unless that is what you want them to think) i mean really i know I'm allowed to date because my mom and dad started dating each other when they turned 14 so they think thats the right age for me.

seriously just let your child date because i doubt the relationship will even last i mean give your child some freedom you want your child to be like the other children....right???

So YES let your child date

i hope this helps you at least a little bit

Answer 4

yes there is nothing wrong with it.

Answer 5

No--16 is a much better age for dating.

Answer 6

yes but not to serious maybe take her to a dairy queen and enjoy a blizzard or a banana split together. that sounds good for you 2 couples she or he should enjoy that. My son did the same thing and his girlfriend loved it.

Answer 7

Some of my friends started dating in the 5th-6th grade. Personally, I believe it's when you feel comfortable. As cliche as it sounds, you should try to stay focused in school at that age. I started dating around 14 myself, but I'm also an Honors/AP student. Trust me when I say I felt like I wasted some time with my boyfriend when I could have been studying. If you must have a boyfriend, try to find a medium where you can keep up your grades. Maybe even plan a few study dates with him. (:

Answer 8

no,i dont think so.sorry because this might not be the answer you are looking for...it is cause that you have many,many years to find your future husband/wife...and when you are 14 you should focus on your school work or maybe wait a year. if you wait until your in at least 10th grade because then you have at least 1 or 2 years to date during school.also high school-if you want to get in a good college-you should focus on your grades first...if you dont get good grades in high school it will be really hard to get in a good college....so the answer is NO.SORRY♥♥

Answer 9

Most of my friends started "dating" at around 12 lol. Start whenever you feel comfortable, and don't let anyone rush you.

Answer 10

NO! God why can't you guys just wait 2 years or something?

What is the rush? It's not like your old or anything. Give yourself to freaking grow up and mature inside and out!

Answer 11

no i had a frend who would go to the movies to go on a "date"

with one of ther moms in the back when we were in 6th grade which is 11-12 16 is so much better its girls like THAT who are gunna grow up always needing a man and wanting to grow up to fast she wears a padded bra and has NONE if you get it. and wears makeup maybe if you hung out with groups it would be better.

Answer 12

honestly NO! because they get wrapped up with "love" and forget about their friends, even their BFF. if it continues for a year or more they lose their friends.

Answer 13

i disagree with stormy, i think its perfectly ok to date when ur 14, ive been dating since i was 13. nobody can say ur not mature when ur a teenager. im going to be a junior this year, and ill be 16, so when i graduate, im gonna be the second youngest in my class, but im taking all honours classes and my freshman and sophomore years ive made straight a's and im in the top 20 in my class. (#16 hellz yea) out of like 200. so if a teenager can handle that, i think they can handle dating too.

Answer 14

sure its ok...but nothing to serious keep it at the level  necessary for your age like only things that involve your bf/gf to come to the hoouse for some dinner or something basically supervised by the parents you know i woyuld keep it at that and not let it go any further

Answer 15

No at fourteen a child (because until you reach 18 you are STILL a child even though a teenaged one) is not mature nor responsible enough to date.

Answer 16

My children will not be allowed to date one on one until age 16. However starting in 7th grade/age 13 they may be able to go out with a group of kids that would include a person of interest to a movie or school event or possibly the Lake or the county fair (ours is cool and the biggest in the nation).

So far my daughter is going into seventh grade and I think she will probably be on one of these group dates at some point. My oldest is in tenth grade but autistic and has not entered the dating scene yet and my youngest is only five LOL.

If one of my children was asked to homecoming as a ninth grader it is possible they could say yes but I would strongly prefer that as a double or larger date rather than one-on-one.

I think the younger teen years should be for learning at school and having fun with friends and not for the pressure of a serious relationship or anything much physical.

Answer 17

to date fine, but like to the movies or to a public place, supervised. I was 14 when I started dating and he said something very smart. "If I tell you not to date you are just going to do it behind my back, so I'd rather you do it in front of my face." and it's true!