We've planned a slumber party to celebrate my daughter's b-day. She has a schoolmate whom she plays with at times but they have a difficult relationship. When I asked my daughter to make out a list of girls to invite, she made a point of saying she did NOT want to invite this particular girl, because after last year's b-day party, the girl had told my d-ter the next day that she hated her party and it was no fun (she had laughed and played through the whole thing.) Now, this little girl has found out about the party and is crying to my d-ter at school. She says my d-ter hates her and that is the real reason we are moving out of town soon (she doesn't hate her, and obviously that is not the reason.) I really don't want to make my d-ter invite anyone she doesn't want to, yet, I'm trying to teach some hosting manners. And I understand that this child's feelings are hurt & both my d-ter &I feel bad about it. Still my kid doesn't want the drama @ her party. What should I do?
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