Is it OK that my grandpa hits me when he drinks? It is just cause of the alcohol, he doesn't hate me, right?

Question

I live with my grandparents.

Answer 1

its funny that a guy named normal kid would ask such an abnormal question.........no obviously hit him back i say!!!

Answer 2

Hitting is never ok.  Try to stay away from him when he is drinking please!

Answer 3

It's never okay to hit someone. Ever.

Right now, stay completely away from him when he drinks.

Call the local AA group in your area and ask for help. They can guide you in the right direction.

I'm so sorry for your situation. Please ask for help. You can do it. Don't put it off, please.

Answer 4

How old are you?  How old is he?  I wouldn't let him hit me, unless he was joking around.

Answer 5

no its not ok.

but i suspect you know that.

Answer 6

Its not ok and its not your fault.But your grandpa needs to get help before it gets worse.

Answer 7

Does he do it an hour after he drinks? If he does, that's when the alcohol wears off and if he hits you an hour later, he hates you. If its when he's drinking he's still intoxicated. What I'm trying to say is yes.

Answer 8

IT IS NOT ALRIGHT!!!!!

And your know that!

Tell someone. An adult that you trust

No one should ever have to go through that!!!

And no he doesn't hate you, but that doesn't give him a right to hit you!

Answer 9

Sounds like your trying to minimize his behavior because of his drinking.  Of course its not ok that he hits you .  Alcohol or drugs never excuses a persons behavior.  That person CHOSE to drink... use drugs... and whatever bad behavior that results is not excusable.  Does your grandma know he does this?  How does he hit you and for what reason?  You need to tell a trusted adult.  You have the right to protection and not be abused.

Answer 10

if its playing around hitting(horsing around) but if its serious no its not OK!! u didnt say how old u  are or how old he is,have u told your g-ma?u should and if she doesn't take care of it/protect u then u should find an adult that u trust and tell them.Discipline and abuse are to very differant things say something before u get hurt,if he does this in private then he even knows it wrong!

Answer 11

Oh, honey, no!  No, that is never, NEVER ok.  If you are living with your grandparents, then you need to contact the police.  Abuse is NEVER acceptable!!!  You need to be safe!  And as for whether he hates you, no, I highly doubt that your grandfather hates you.  Drinking does strange things to people.  But, please go to the authorities if you are being abused, doll.  That's just NOT cool!

Answer 12

Put him in a nursing home.