Is it OK to show that you are mad at some1 at work..?

Question

if some1 at work really bothers me very much- can I show him that I am mad at that person (he is taking others for granted several times); of course, i never fight with anybody as I think it is unprofessional.. but I cannot take it any more...

Answer 1

Yes you can. So that he's change, but not in a mean way. Tell him what you like to tell him slowly so that you'll not hurt his feelings. Tell him what you don't like about what he's doing. Alright. Thank you! Have a very good day at work.

Answer 2

No. You have to specifically define and communicate to him how he took others for granted, why it was wrong, and specifically how you want him to behave in that situation in the future.

Repeat as necessary.

Answer 3

when you are at work, you represent the company you work for and you have to be professional and do things by the book. You can't just randomly act a fool cause someone chapped your hide. Follow your company's policies, they should have gone over them when you were first hired, I guess you slept through it or something. If someone is bothering you, it depends on what it is. If you just don't like their personality or the way they look, then too bad, grin and bare it. If they are doing something wrong, then approach your manager confidentially, they will not share any information you give out, but they should address the issue. It's their duty to mind the performance of their employees and not yours so you need to take the situation to them and let them deal with it. If after a time nothing gets done about it, that is their business, but if it affects you, then you'll have to quit and find another job.

Answer 4

It is probably better to get it out in the open, but if it is a person that does things to see who gets mad, it's better to let it go . But, just smile everytime you pass and say how we doing, have a nice day!

Answer 5

Look if it is a small business or large business it is still unprofessional.  the way that you carry yourself says alot.  If you want people to think that you are petty then do what you must.  But the way that i would deal with the aggervation is to go to the gym or take a walk after work.  Do someting with the agervation that will benefit you.