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Question

Right I'm Going to a House Party Tomorrow And There is gonna be lots of boys i really like ive already started my period and Love Going out with boys and Kissing Ect. But i Don't Know if im Ready For s*x Or if His p***s Will Fit inside me it might be to big How Do i know when im ready

Pls Help Thank You

And DONT LEAVE ANY NASTY CMTS

And im 14,

Answer 1

The best way to decide if you are ready for s*x is if you know how s*x actually works.  The way you asked your question (esp the part about him not fitting) leads me to think you aren't ready.Remember, any time a guy puts his p***s in, there is a chance you could have a baby.  Are you ready for that?  If not, don't have s*x.

Answer 2

Your too young to worry about that :(

Just remember this if theres a tiny doubt in your mind its there for a reason do not do it!!!

Answer 3

make sure its something u really wanna do hun, and i will be honest you will be more happy with yourself if you wate for the right person, that you know you love, there is nothing wrong with s*x, you will know when you are ready but i hope you make the right choice for you, and also to be honest when you have s*x for the first time, you wont even be worying about if it will fit, your v****a will stretch to the size it needs to, and you have a little strip of skin acroos your v****a that will rip, when he sticks it in, (called popping your cherry) but it doesnt hurt hun, just please make the right choice and i hope you have a wonderfull time

Answer 4

Only you will know if you're ready. But in my opinion 14 is young and you are still a child (you probably hate reading that, but it's true). Enjoy the time of kissing and innocent gropes. From personal experience, I REALLY wished I waited, I was 14 and now I'm 25. I thought I was so mature but I wasn't. If you feel pressurised, be strong and say no. Don't do it because all your friends have. In reality they probably haven't. Please wait.

Answer 5

you are immature and its obvious from the way that you phrase your thoughts, so WAIT A FEW YEARS! Plus dont you want it to be with someone that you really love? and sont you want him to be crazy about you too? do u expect anybody to show respect to a 14yr old girl who has s*x at parties with boys that she just "likes"?

Answer 6

Too young!

Sorry.

Answer 7

Honey, you are 14 years old, do you think you really want to have s*x now?  wait for the man you love, not just some random guy you barely know that you just want to have s*x with because every one else is.  wait a few more years, like 4 or 5, you dont want to risk becoming a teen mother!

Answer 8

If u are so unsure of yourself than it's sure that you are not ready at all.

If you are doing this because others already did it or something like that (you wanna impress the guy, or he asked you, or etc.) it doesn't worth it!

And about the his p***s fitting inside, well just think about a babies head (it can fit out) so his p***s should get in. If you cant manage that means you are affraid and not ready and your v****a wont expand ...

Answer 9

i'd hold off on the s*x.  That can get messy fast.  It's going to hurt because you're going to be too tight because you're young.  There is no need to rush into that just yet.  s*x isn't going anywhere.

Answer 10

dude 14

are u freakin outa your mind

dont have s*x kissing is ok

but dont start have s*x

ur probably not physically or mentally ready for it, if a boy preasures u just say NOOOOOOOOOOOOO

Answer 11

No nasty comments, 1/2 hr ago you already thought you may have had s*x, so have you or haven't you.

Answer 12

it''ll fit don't worry about but at fourteen are you sure you want to loose your virginity with a quickie at a party wait until you can get some time alone and enjoy yourself and perhaps you should wait until you are 16

Answer 13

Please dont have s*x at 14. Just please dont.

Answer 14

Nope, I would not have s*x at your age, defiantly not.  Just stick to kissing.  You're not ready, and neither is any of the guys that you would think about having s*x with.  You could get pregnant, even if you use protection.  Please don't do it!!!

Answer 15

A house party is the worst place to have s*x.  You don't really know the guys are safe. You're up for STDs.  Rapes go on at those things with everyone drinking and using drugs.

If you have to ask how do you know if you're ready, you're not.  Nobody is ready at 14.

Answer 16

lol you are ready when you have found someone really special, dont do it now 14 is a child! freakin heck that is child molestation legally counted as rape btw.

Answer 17

ur way to young to have s*x, i dnt think u shuld its just the excitment u might regret it, but u shuld do wot u think is best for u not for anyone else

Answer 18

if you don't feel comfortable about it, then don't do it.

plus you should really be in a long lasting relationship when you decide to have s*x for the first time.

it will be a better experience.

Answer 19

you'll know at the moment dont let anyone force you and make u think u r. when the time is right u will know it, plus when u first do it u should do it with someone u love and care. just dont be pushed into things u dont want to, just wait.....oh and girl u to young to be doing stuff like that, im 17 and i know u should be doing that stuff, wait til ur older and know for a fact, please listen to me, someone who knows by facts

Answer 20

I know you've heard this a million times... but wait to have s*x!!!  You are not ready. You will not understand why until you are older.  It will not make the boy like you any more, it will actually have the opposite effect!  Once they get what they want they move on and you are left brokenhearted.  Kissing is a lot different than s*x.  It doesn't come with as much emotional attachment.  You will have s*x one day, but there is no need to rush it!  People say mean things about you are young and sexually active too.  I know you are curious and can't wait to experience s*x.  You have to think ahead of time and all the consequences of it such as pregnancy, heartbreak, name calling, etc.  Is it worth it?  Please wait.  

Answer 21

This is not a nasty comment. It may sound as if it is. But you are not ready for s*x. You are not on a birth control medication. A condom is not absolutely safe,it can break.you do not know if someone has a sexually transferred disease,40% OF PEOPLE WHO HAVE HERPES DON'T KNOW IT. Also, do you want your first experience to be under the circumstances you describe? The fact that you ask certain questions shows that you are not mature enough to have a healthy and good experience. Do you want a baby at 15 or 16? No. Please wait until you are a little older and are in a relationship with only one boy . I know people say you need to study etc and not do this or do this, but you are 14 and need to learn how to write better and to express yourself better. I promise you will not regret this if you follow this advice..And you will know when you do start having s*x that the person likes you for more than just the s*x.....otherwise boys will just want the s*x and  you are not prepared physically or emotionally.  Be good to yourself.  Not self destructive. Please   love from me

Answer 22

your way too young to be thinking about s*x. you have your whole life ahead of you.  and don't worry about the size it always fits.

Answer 23

People can't answer this for you when you are ready to having s*x. That is something that you'll know just wait with that and just have fun don't rush with having s*x with boys your young.

Answer 24

your not to young for s*x. it will fit

Answer 25

Please please please do not have s*x! You are 14 and have got your whole life ahead of you. You will regret it in the future if you sleep with someone so young. I know you may feel ready? or under pressure? But i'm telling you please just enjoy the kissing and hugging stage and don't rush into things like that until older.  

Answer 26

Well, if you are going to a house party I'm guessing you might be drinking.. please, please don't have s*x just for the sake of it, especially if it's because you've been drinking at a party. I know someone who did do that and they regretted it the morning after, and they regretted it even more when other people found out.

Answer 27

Dont have s*x at Fourteen..

WHO DOES THAT !?!

sorry but, thts insane.!

14 toooo young, wat if you get pregnant ?

you know your ready wenever you are, since you dont kno you NOT ready !

Answer 28

I've answered one of your other questions on here. So I'll answer another one.

Sweetheart 14 is too young to be thinking about s*x with a boy. I have 2 daughters and I would freak if I even thought they were thinking about that at 14. If you need to ask when you will be ready than honey your not.

But WHEN you are your body is designed to fit any man's p***s. But please from a mother to a yong girl.. Please wait til you are really sure b4 doing that. s*x is meant for mature people and 14 I do not believe is mature enough yet

Answer 29

To quote a very wise woman, "Doubt means DON'T every time!"

PS: a v****a is made to strech hunny. Its engineered so a baby's head can come out of it. ;-)

Answer 30

take it easy girl..dont go straight to intercourse..stick to kissing and touching for the moment..you dont wanna loose your virginity for nothing..wait a bit longer for that..in the mean while enjoy exploring..

Answer 31

You have answered your own question.  You are fourteen and not legally old enough.  Anyone having sexual relations with you is breaking the law and could end up on the s*x register.