Is it Worth it...or Not.PLEASE read.?

Question

I met this male friend threw an ex-friend that was dating him at the time.i dont talk to her anymore.for other reasons.they found out that he talks to me.and that we have hungout on occasions.before i knew him.i heard from his ex that he had slept with her 15 yr old sister.and there was supposbly heavy petting with the mom also.This was all while he was dating her.shes 17 btw and hes 21.he than got her knocked up.she lost the kid at 3months and they have been broken up for 5 months now.im nothing like that messed up family.And im one that stays clear away from drama.But this guy likes me soo much.he shows me so much respect.we have been on dates b4 and i told him from the get go im not sleezy.and he respected that and all we did was cuddle.we have kissed and madeout.he has never tryed to lay any moves on me.he reminds me how much he likes me all the time.i did hear too that he cheated on his ex with another girl.he did tell me that and didnt deny sleeping with his ex sister 2 times.he told me he regretted it.and regrets everything.he shows so much intreast in me.i just dont know what to do.should i stay and see what happens.im in no rush.we both show each other the up most respect when around each other.he kisses my hand.holds my hand.treats me like a ladie.Where should i go from here??? is it worth it????

thank you all.

Answer 1

Honey you got way to many warning signs that state stay away.  There is way to many other guys out there that have good reputations.  I wouldn't waist my time on this guy for one minute.

Answer 2

There are so many signs saying for you to stay clear from him but i know from experience that if you just give it a shot sometimes that certain person will change. If you do decide to go for it, don't get too emotionally attached to him.. you don't know if he's just going to bale or cheat on you like he did those other people. Just be ready for the hurt. But, my opinion is to be friends with him, maybe make out a bit, but don't become anything exclusive with him..

Good luck! Make the right choice!

Answer 3

It's a tough one. But if you do decide to go for it, don't let him break your heart love. Keep an eye out. It sounds horrible to say this but very rarely do people change.

Answer 4

i would have to say that he may sound like he is changing for you, but if he already did it once and he did it to your ex-friend, what makes you think that he won't do it to you?

I just think that you should be careful, because in the end you may end up getting hurt emotionally or even worse. I would just say to go with your instincts and go with what your head is telling you.....