Is it a bad time to break up?

Question

I have been in a relationship with this guy for over a year. He is a good person, but has turned out to be a not so great boyfriend. I wont go into details, but the point is, i'm just not happy anymore. The thing is, he just graduated college and is starting his new job. Should I wait until he gets more settled in his job to break up with him?

Answer 1

No maybe now would be the best time. Hes graduated moving on to his new career and maybe a new life. The longer you wait you know the harder it gets, i would say the sooner the better then he can move on and start his new career with a new girlfriend :) Hope I helped. Good Luck!

Answer 2

break up with him NOW.

Answer 3

i personally think dat you shud break up wid him now cuz the more you wait the more attached he gets...and even though u dont wanna be with him anymore, his love for you will still keep growing as you wait...soo its gonna hurt him more if u wait...his job is his job and he wont get fired or anything from it if u break up wid him now...he has no choice cuz thats whats gonna earn him a living, yea he's gonna hurt but he has no choice but to work..its not like he's gonna quit or stop working if u break up with him... so i dont think its gonna affect him as much as if u wait...just tell him straight up and set the mood and tone....goodluck

Answer 4

No.  Don't put it off.

It will be more painful if you wait.  Simply try to end the relationship on good terms.   Wish him well in his career and hope that he will be successful.  He will be hurt at first but he will eventually move on.  And so will you.    

Answer 5

No... Do it now...

Answer 6

No. Do it as soon as you can because the longer you wait around the harder it may be. Also the longer you stay the more you lie to him and yourself. Good luck.