Is it a good idea for a couple to go to bed angry at each other? Or should they stay up and fight?

Question

Is it a good idea for a couple to go to bed angry at each other? Or should they stay up and fight?

Answer 1

depends on the issue of the fight..if its smthg tiny n can be ignored we just sleep over it..but if it really needs talking we discuss n finish it before we sleep..atleast u sleep in peace after that..

Answer 2

go to sleep cause after the next morning they go to sleep they fogot and there all happy and jolly,...and r not fighting!!!!!...trust me!!!!!

Answer 3

my Pasteur said that a couple should never go to bed mad at each other so they should fix their problems then and there or just agree to disagree. You don't want to carry problems from today into 2morrow.

Answer 4

Depends on whether or not they're drank themselves stupid. Some traditions have to be observed, even in today's society.

Answer 5

Neither! Before you go to bed, work it out. Figure out your problems and get a solution because you'll def. have a more peaceful sleep. If you can't seem to come to a conclusion, go to bed, get some rest. Your mind will be fresh in the morning and then maybe you can work it out(: Good Luckk<3

Answer 6

well personally i dont think a couple should sleep 2gether angry at each other i think they should wait like walk away then try talking bout it. or somethingbut dont sleep angry cus u wont have a good night sleep.

but that is just me.

but luck  

Answer 7

stay up and try to resolve it

if you must go to bed angry

at least say i love you

and don't hold a grudge in the morning

wait until later when emotions are cooled and then discuss it resolve it

it will be easier when emotions/tempers are not flaring

Answer 8

Never go to bed angry with each other. Never. Have make-up s*x instead.

Answer 9

well, not stay up and fight, maybe talk in bed with the lights out, it's more relaxed that way and you both might end up falling asleep anyway but it wont be so harsh.

Answer 10

They should stay up and talk calmly not fight.

Answer 11

sleep in seperate beds or couch and bed

Answer 12

Don't go to bed angry, don't stay up and fight, but stay up and either agree to disagree, or talk it all out. Fighting never solves anything. Only way to make a difference and make things better is to talk about it.

Answer 13

have angry s*x then go to sleep happy

Answer 14

Personally ...I don't like going to bed with a bad energy. Especially when I don't live with my current boyfriend I like to get to a point where we are okay with each other and speaking more about the situation tomorrow if necessary. Sometimes it is better to sleep on things and clear your head ...you might realize you were over reacting or even wrong (good for both people, so if they cannot let it go take the initiative). I do not like to leave things on a bad note right before bed though ...bad for quality sleep and I like to tell him I love him before going to bed no matter what because you just never know what can happen.

Answer 15

well if my boyfriend and got into a fight and it was near bed time then i would apologize, kiss him on the cheek and hold him in my arms:) good luck:) i hope that i helped:)

Answer 16

A friend of Mime just prefers to stay quiet and hide under the covers.

My ex-wife said she wanted to get away to someplace new. I said try the kitchen.

***please re-add me as a contact***...I had the option blocked because of trolls and deleted all my fans.***

Answer 17

It's never a good idea to go to bed angry. What if one of you didn't wake in the morning? How horrible you would feel the rest of your life over a silly argument. Some things may not get resolved, but it's okay to come to some reasonable solution until morning, or at least agree to disagree and put it on hold until a later time or better yet, if you can't agree, just let it be. You are still for each other in the big picture and would continue to be each other's greatest strength and support if it came down to the important things going on in your life. So, just call each other dumb names and laugh about it. It's a much better feeling than anger.

Answer 18

Listen to and read the lyrics to "go to bed" by Monica

*featuring Tyrese

[Chorus:]

I think your wrong

You think your right

And all that equals up to is a fight

Let's compromise

Before we go to bed tonight

Cause if the fight don't die before the sun rise we may wake up on the wrong side

Let's not go to bed mad tonight

[Monica:]

Time is ticking

My eyes are getting heavy but I know we gotta squash this

Before it was popping

It's time for dropping

Copping attitudes right now

Nothings, nothing

Cause this ain't nothing

Don't you know that I love you

So start to stopping

Think about it

You'll see it's stupid

[Bridge:]

Agrue about things so critical

And you heated over nothing

And just hang up the phone

I want

I wanna talk in the mood

See we need a resoltuion

Like that Aaliyah song

[Chorus:]

[Tyrese:]

What time is it

I'm not on a mission

To stay up with you all night

It makes me so sick

To my stomach

Everytime we argue and fight

I mean it girl my head gets lite

(It just ain't right)

I'm feed right up please

It's 2:15 in the morning

There is no need

[Chorus:]

[Tyrese(Monica):]

Am not trying to be mad at you

Why you make me wanna not fool with you

Can't you see I'm tired girl

(Besides the fact it's a quarter past 2)

(A girl like me got things to do)

(So let's see each others point of view)

[Chorus:]

[Repeat]

I just wanna love you baby

I place no one above you baby

You're the only one for me

Let's not argue my baby

Everything you want and need

And my baby come and take my hand

I got you baby

Let me be the man you want in your life baby

And that's how I feel...

Answer 19

Usually my husband sleeps..I worry, and then in the morning we go to breakfast and the fight sorta is not that important anymore.

If we stayed up and fought though, I think it would cause more problems than it solves.

Answer 20

Well, my husband and I have different views on that ... so I just kick him while he is sleeping!!!

Answer 21

neither, they should maturly discuss and compromise,  

Answer 22

no, make peace and go to bed happy.

don't have s*x as a substitute. physical pleasure is no balm for mental pain.

Answer 23

Sleepy=cranky.  We sleep on it.  Usually I'm the one who's mad and I feel better after sleeping on it.

Answer 24

I actually read somewhere that it is healthy and totally okay for a couple to go to bed, not often, but ocasionally, angry. Don't make a habit of it, but know that it is totally healthy and okay if a problem doesn't get resloved over night. Sometimes when there is a conflict fighting for long periods of time isn't the right way to handle it. A break and sometime to cool off is perfectly okay.

Answer 25

always talk about it. you may go to sleep and never wake up to talk about it. then it will haunt you the rest of your life.