Is it a good idea for me and my boyfriend to attend the same college?

Question

we are both going to start applying for college soon

and we discuss whether we should go to the same school

right now we both dont attend the same school and we never had.

we have been together for the pass 2 years and a 1/2 and i have known him since we were kids

are moms are close friends and we have decided that we want to someday get married

but is it a good idea to go to the same school?

Answer 1

no.

Answer 2

Depending on what careers you both had a mind, you could try applying to a college that may help further that career. But if you truly want to go to the same college, you and your boyfriend should have a serious talk about it, and decide from there. Hope this helps. Good-luck!

Answer 3

That depends. There is a good chance that you guys won't be together for long if you go to different schools. There is also a chance that you wont be together at the same school and then you might have to see each other everyday anyway.

Answer 4

no. it would be good to spend some time apart in college.

Answer 5

If you want to go to different schools do it.  You need to go to the place that will be best for your individual needs.

As harsh as it sounds, if you two are meant to be together, you will make it through and stay together even at different colleges.  If you aren't, it won't.  Plain and simple.

As much as you probably love him, no guy is worth your career, and the same goes for him.  You don't want to settle for a mediocre school if there is one that is much better for you.

It will work out in the end.  May not be how you wanted it to end, but it will.

Best of luck to you both! :)