Is it a good idea to give my ex boyfriend a photo album?

Question

The reason why i want to do this is because i want him to leave me alone...I still love him but im not sure if he does...he is just playing stupid games...w/ other girls but he tells me that he loves me

i want to move on and be happy n i feel that the only way he can stop talking to me is by giving him an album w/ all of the pixs that we took from the first day we started going out till the last day...and at the end of the album im going to write him a good bye later

this might sound corny but its pretty sad..n hard for me to do it but i guess thats the only way he is going to understand that he has to let me move on!!!

n probably he going to realize what he lost!!

Answer 1

he obv. hasnt moved on.

sooo you start to move on then he will?

Answer 2

I would say the best way, is to stop taking his phone calls.  You are going to give him pictures of you and him, which will remind him of you constantly, (if he looks at it) which if he still cares will only make him contact you more, so is that what you want in reality?   You are playing games the same as he is, stop doing that if you want a healthy relationship, and one that will last. He either wants you or not, and if not then don't cheat yourself out of finding someone that does.

Answer 3

I think that you should totally do it. If you love him, and he loves you, then you two should be together. Playing with stupid games...w/ other girl is bad. By right, you shouldn't love him anymore. But you must think about it. Do you give him enough concern, do you stand by his side when he is down? Do you spend time with him although you are busy. Probably he is feeling lonely and needs some company. I think that if you give him a photo album, it may make him remember the good times you had.

As long as you and him pay more attention to each other, I believe that love will blossom in you and him.

Answer 4

i think you are just prolonging your agony, u said dat u still love him maybe deep inside u ders still hope for a reconciliation..

u better make it formal, if u really want him to leave u alone then talk to him personally instead of giving an album with a goodbye letter. with that both party can speak up and explain each oders side well.

you have to accept the fact that sometimes love isnt enough to stay in a relationship specially so if u are taken for granted. at first its very hard, but if u get used to it, everything will follow. make urself busy doing other things, u have to love urself before loving other. always pray. goodluck