Is it a good move, to tell a potential girlfriend that your a virgin?, or is it a deal breaker?

Question

over 18, of course!

Answer 1

its not a deal breaker, some girls like that and they feel special that they might take it lol. plus they know you dont really got any STD's

Answer 2

dont say anything unless its brought up, and if or when you do just be confident about it.

Answer 3

I would wait until you guys are closer to being intimate. Then, you might want to tell her just to get it out in the open. Because, the first time is sometimes kind of awkward.

I don't think it is a deal breaker at all. Now, a guy who has been with 30 or 40 women..THAT is a deal breaker. I would have to douse him in bleach.

Answer 4

I wouldn't just randomly bring it up, like at dinner or anything..lol

Just tell her if she asks.

I agree with one of the other answers, I would MUCH rather date a guy who was a virgin....because for 1-I know he hasn't slept with every girl in the neighborhood...like most men I know....and 2-he's a nice respectable guy.

Answer 5

Hi James,

Be sure to use a condom.

On a more serious note, why would you tell a -potential- girlfriend that you're a virgin unless she asks?  

These are very private matters, and even your closest friends do not necessarily need to know.  I would keep it quiet until she is your girlfriend or beyond that.

If your potential girlfriend has asked, then tell her the truth, because eventually, she is going to find out when you have no idea what you're doing.  Although it is fairly intuitive, it is also nerve wracking, and quite obvious when you're new to it.  She'll be able to tell.

Hope that helps.

Cheers,

Confuzzled.