Is it a good or bad idea to date my friend's older brother?

Question

My friend doesn't know that we like each other mostly because I don't say anything to her with the fear of how she may feel about it. My friend and I are 21 and he is 24. He also hasn't ever had a girlfriend before and I know she said she would be happy if he found one. What do you think?

Answer 1

I think it's okay if you tell your friend first. And you might not be as close friends after you date him.

Answer 2

bad idea never date a friends brother! It could ruin your relationship!  

Answer 3

it depends if you wanna be sisters lol but if she has a problem maybe not id say ask her first

Answer 4

If you like each other, it's a good idea to date, but I would definitely run it past your friend first, so she does not feel betrayed...

Answer 5

Talk to your friend first and find out how she thinks of this or how she would react.  If she really likes you and cherishes your friendship with you im sure she won't have a problem with you dating her brother.

Anywho, do that and if it's cool go for it and if it's not and you really like him, then still go for it lol

GOOD LUCK:)

Answer 6

BAD it is going to fuc k up ur friendship!!! n if it dont n u brake up with her bro its going to be weird going to her house n see her!

Answer 7

Well, in my opinion it's a bad idea. It can make things awkward for you & your friend if it doesn't work with you & her brother. My advice is, talk to her & see how she feels. But make sure going into it you have intentions to treat him well, because if you lose him you could also be losing a friend. & most likely, a relationship with him will change your friendship either way.

Answer 8

good idea

just don't s***w up

Answer 9

Not too bad. If you're young dont think it as..."if I date him she'll become my sis" That'll be cool though heh