Is it a good thing to go slowly with the sexual part of my relationship?

Question

I've been dating this guy for about 2 months now, and we haven't done anything but make out. He was my first kiss, so even doing that was really nerve racking. I don't know if I'm ready to do anything else, but I'm sure he probably expects it, since he's a 16 year old guy. I just got home from camp, so I haven't seen him in 3 weeks. He's hinted at what he wants as a welcome home present...What should I do? He knows that I'm innocent, and he says he's okay with that, but I don't know.. Is it really that bad to be a good girl?

Answer 1

if he cares hel wait. if you dont want to you shouldnt feel forced to especially since you made a big deal about him being 16 which makes me think ur a bit younger.

dont worry about it, it will happen when it happens ;)

Answer 2

Take it slow and only do what you are really comfortable with. You may lose some guys in the process, but they weren't worth keeping!

Answer 3

Do what you feel, don't be pressured.  You don't have to have full s*x you know, mutual masturbation can be as much if not more fun!  Plus it's a h**l of a lot safer.  Enjoy!

Answer 4

yes

Answer 5

it's ok to wait to have s*x, take your time there is no need to rush. if he really loves you he will not pressure you and will wait as long as you want to wait ok.   Plus you do not want to get knocked up and have to go to school, then all the kids will stare at you and talk behind your back about you, I don't think you want that to happen.

Answer 6

Yes it's a good thing to take it slow. It helps you to weed out those guys that are only trying to take advantage of you. Sadly, there will be many of them.  

Answer 7

no guy shud have to hint at you. when the time is ready for both of you then let it happen but for now you shud be happy in each others company. this guy sounds like he likes you so he shud respect you. your braver than me because i gave in to my first bloke and i hate myself for it. hats off to you.

Answer 8

You need to buy him a teddy bear and say here your welcome home present. First you do not need to feel like you have to do anything. Second your both to young for anything but a simple kiss. Third you have not see him in 3 weeks so what does that tell you?  Go with the teddy bear thing. No it is not a bad thing to be a good girl.  You do not need to feel pressured  into anything.